Where have all the nice girls gone?
Carlos - I bought your course about a year ago and it has moved my inner (and outer) game light years ahead.
In the past few months, however, I have come to be very dissappointed in the personality traits of the "9's" and "10's" (we are talking looks here) I have been seeing. I have opted for just hanging with my friends (male and female). I seem to be happier this way, more comfortable in my skin when I am with my friends.
Am I missing something? Is this a phase? Am I wrong for wanting to duck out of the game for a while, or is this a necessary 'breather"?
Some feedback from the master sure would help.
Thanks, Scott in Louisiana.
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
I share your disappointment, my friend.
The sad fact is that when you're dealt a great hand in the genetic poker game, you often start to take your situation for granted. Girls who are attractive rarely have to do any real work to gain anyone's approval or favor, so they're automatically assigned high status.
The trick is for us as guys not to become too jaded by this fact, and instead re-define what it is we're looking for.
You see, if you're looking for "completion" from a woman in any way, you're going to be disappointed. SEVERELY.
Women are not an end, but merely another part of a satisfying lifestyle.
We've all become disillusioned at some point, and have had to learn new skills to revive our interest in the "game." One of those skills is BALANCE. You need to feel that you're already fulfilled first, and then proceed to renew the chase.
Something that guys commonly gain from my Secrets of the Alpha Man program is a new perspective on women, which usually leads to greater internal fulfillment and success over the long haul. Just another of the fringe benefits of living a quality Alpha lifestyle, not just chasing tail.
Hang out with your friends for a while. But eventually, that old sexual drive kicks in and you'll need to get back to it.
Trust me, every guy does.
There are quality women out there, but you need to dig a little to find them. That's more reason you need good attraction skills to be the one to do the choosing, not BE chosen.
Get the Secrets of the Alpha Man
In the past few months, however, I have come to be very dissappointed in the personality traits of the "9's" and "10's" (we are talking looks here) I have been seeing. I have opted for just hanging with my friends (male and female). I seem to be happier this way, more comfortable in my skin when I am with my friends.
Am I missing something? Is this a phase? Am I wrong for wanting to duck out of the game for a while, or is this a necessary 'breather"?
Some feedback from the master sure would help.
Thanks, Scott in Louisiana.
______________________
CARLOS ANSWERS:
I share your disappointment, my friend.
The sad fact is that when you're dealt a great hand in the genetic poker game, you often start to take your situation for granted. Girls who are attractive rarely have to do any real work to gain anyone's approval or favor, so they're automatically assigned high status.
The trick is for us as guys not to become too jaded by this fact, and instead re-define what it is we're looking for.
You see, if you're looking for "completion" from a woman in any way, you're going to be disappointed. SEVERELY.
Women are not an end, but merely another part of a satisfying lifestyle.
We've all become disillusioned at some point, and have had to learn new skills to revive our interest in the "game." One of those skills is BALANCE. You need to feel that you're already fulfilled first, and then proceed to renew the chase.
Something that guys commonly gain from my Secrets of the Alpha Man program is a new perspective on women, which usually leads to greater internal fulfillment and success over the long haul. Just another of the fringe benefits of living a quality Alpha lifestyle, not just chasing tail.
Hang out with your friends for a while. But eventually, that old sexual drive kicks in and you'll need to get back to it.
Trust me, every guy does.
There are quality women out there, but you need to dig a little to find them. That's more reason you need good attraction skills to be the one to do the choosing, not BE chosen.
Get the Secrets of the Alpha Man
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