The problem isn't the question...
It's Philip. I am in a very severe situation right now. About a month ago I sent an email to (another advisor) to give me some tips about how to pick a girl from a disco quickly, because within 3 days I had a disco but....... NO REPLY!! and I used to see these hot chicks at the disco, staring at them without even knowing how to approach them, etc......
I was very angry but then I subscribed to your VERY HELPFUL newsletters and decided to ask you whether you could give me some tips on how to pick girls from a disco/party....... p.s: unfortunately I am a very bad dancer, will that make it impossible for me ???
Wish you could give me a fast reply because I have a disco VERY soon so I would be extremely glad and satisfied if you could help me out.
-P
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
You're going to be surprised at this answer, because at first you're going to stomp your feet and be mad that I didn't seem to answer your question, but I'm actually answering what you really need answered.
Underneath is an answer that is far more important.
Oh, first, understand that guys don't need to dance well. If you just sway back and forth with her, you'll do fine. She's dancing for attention and expression, not to create a music video.
Now, the real problem isn't getting tips on how to pickup girls at a disco/party, or dancing.
The problem is that you're in such a rush and you feel like it's so urgent that you get this "quick", and then when you don't get what you want, you react with anger.
You can go out any night of the week and dance. And even if it were only every other week, you'll have plenty more of these to go to in the future. By thinking that you gotta get help right this second, you're creating something called false urgency. Sometimes false urgency is good, but in most guys it's often very misguided and misplaced. It creates the illusion of scarcity. And you'll understand why this is something for you to take care of in my program.
This is a small example of how a lot of dating advice for men out there is going wrong. They're focused on fast "seduction" rather than correcting the misguided belief systems that guys have created.
Let me say it once - and trust me, I know what I'm talking about here: If you do not address your inner AND outer game issues together, you will still be back here with me working on the inner game later. Only then it will be much harder because you'll have thrown a lot of good advice on top of a bad attitude, and you'll slow your progress down.
You see, if I just gave you "tips," like be a bit more aloof, talk about interesting subjects, etc., you'd just use them with no understanding of the mindset you need to have to apply them correctly.
Giving out "tips" alone is irresponsible. Giving you tips that mesh with an Alpha Attitude is what you need to be a REAL man.
If you want to get extremely happy and satisfied, start applying your skills with my strategies together here: The Secrets of the Alpha Man.
I was very angry but then I subscribed to your VERY HELPFUL newsletters and decided to ask you whether you could give me some tips on how to pick girls from a disco/party....... p.s: unfortunately I am a very bad dancer, will that make it impossible for me ???
Wish you could give me a fast reply because I have a disco VERY soon so I would be extremely glad and satisfied if you could help me out.
-P
______________________
CARLOS ANSWERS:
You're going to be surprised at this answer, because at first you're going to stomp your feet and be mad that I didn't seem to answer your question, but I'm actually answering what you really need answered.
Underneath is an answer that is far more important.
Oh, first, understand that guys don't need to dance well. If you just sway back and forth with her, you'll do fine. She's dancing for attention and expression, not to create a music video.
Now, the real problem isn't getting tips on how to pickup girls at a disco/party, or dancing.
The problem is that you're in such a rush and you feel like it's so urgent that you get this "quick", and then when you don't get what you want, you react with anger.
You can go out any night of the week and dance. And even if it were only every other week, you'll have plenty more of these to go to in the future. By thinking that you gotta get help right this second, you're creating something called false urgency. Sometimes false urgency is good, but in most guys it's often very misguided and misplaced. It creates the illusion of scarcity. And you'll understand why this is something for you to take care of in my program.
This is a small example of how a lot of dating advice for men out there is going wrong. They're focused on fast "seduction" rather than correcting the misguided belief systems that guys have created.
Let me say it once - and trust me, I know what I'm talking about here: If you do not address your inner AND outer game issues together, you will still be back here with me working on the inner game later. Only then it will be much harder because you'll have thrown a lot of good advice on top of a bad attitude, and you'll slow your progress down.
You see, if I just gave you "tips," like be a bit more aloof, talk about interesting subjects, etc., you'd just use them with no understanding of the mindset you need to have to apply them correctly.
Giving out "tips" alone is irresponsible. Giving you tips that mesh with an Alpha Attitude is what you need to be a REAL man.
If you want to get extremely happy and satisfied, start applying your skills with my strategies together here: The Secrets of the Alpha Man.
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