APPROACHING WOMEN QUESTION:

Let me start off by saying you have been very helpfull to me especially since I have no experience in the single world. Since the age of of 17 (I'm 23 now) I have been with the same girl.

Now I have been single for 4 months and have been making attempts to meet/date some new women. Your material has been fantastic and I fully understand all your concepts and have been able to apply them once I get past my biggest weakness, Initiation. I feel very awkward and uncomfortable with the approach, I know Practice, practice, practice. I am trying.

The situation is im at a bar (party/pickup bar) I make eye conctact with a very attractive fem. I hold eye contact she smiles I smile back and I counted 3 seconds and turned tail instead of approach. It really pissed me off that this happened that I chickened out but oh well life goes on and in time I will learn. But after a few beers I confessed my cowardness to my friends and they asked me to point out the girl. One of them had a master plan of tricking me into going towards her to get a free drink with him,

Once there he turned to her and said this is my friend S hes been digging you all night. I took the opportunity of embarrasment and tried to turn it into something positive. I quickly made a remark about my freinds boldness and finally did what I should have done a while ago and introduce myself.

We had some so-so fluff talk and did some dancing my read on her was a shy girl or a girl to nice to reject me because of this I was not gonna make a play on getting her home that night so I didnt want to seem clingy or aggresive, so after dancing and a little bit more small talk I closed with her number. I Followed all your tips and concepts to the T with the exception of that terrible opening.

To much of my great surprise Somehow she is genuinely interested in seeing and getting to know me even with my very weak opening, For the advice and tips I was able to apply that night I got the most attractive girls number I have ever gotten in my life, I still need alot of work on my inner game as you would say, but I guess I didnt do that bad.


Any tips would be immensely appreciated. Keep up the good work, I do plan on being more than a podcast free loader soon. I would really love to join your message forum comunity so I will find something to purchase within the week.

Thanks
S.B.
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CARLOS:

Thanks for your letter... And I'm glad I've been able to help.

I'm not sure I found a question in your letter, but I will comment.

You don't have to do EVERYTHING right to get a woman interested. You just have to do ENOUGH things right.

This is a big change in thinking, because you shouldn't put too much pressure on yourself to succeed. Just KEEP PLAYING.

You did the right thing by not trying to push things all the way to the bedroom. Have patience.

And don't beat yourself up over what you didn't do; congratulate yourself on what you DID do. I highlighted the portion of your email to emphasize the important lesson to pull from the experience.

The Podcast is only the tip of the iceberg. If you want more success in the approach and meeting women, I highly suggest you look at this program:

How to approach women

You'll get the most out of this, and probably the Alpha Man program for more confidence.


Let me know if you have any specific questions, and congratulations on moving things forward with this girl, in spite of yourself. :)

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