DON'T FREAK WOMEN OUT!

QUESTION:


Dear Carlos,

I saw a beautiful lady in a shop and without hesitation I walked straight into her shop and introduced my self. At first, she hesitated telling me her name, that she was kind’a scared that am stranger to her…but after a while she complied by telling me her name and the area where she lives.

She refused to tell me the particular apartment where she lives and insisted she would not give me her cell number…….that she does not know me well.

I was not rejected anyway, she agreed that I can check on her at the shop whenever I wish. While we were discussing, I told her that I will surprise her and in the process she was kinda curious to know the kinda surprise that am up to, but I decided to keep her in suspense…. Telling her to wait for it.

She actually responded that she likes surprises and she has a lot of hobbies which she would disclose to me when I visit her at her shop.

My question now is, how would you rate her interest in me? I would appreciate your tips on what next to do cos I would like to have her as my babe.

Thank you for all your dating tips.

Awaiting yours.

R
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CARLOS:

Whoah, dude! You creeped me out on that one.

I realize that I have to guess a few things about what you really did and how you translated it to me here in your email, but something stood right out.

You were moving way too fast with trying to get information from her. That would freak anyone out.

It's like the cops interrogating her or something.

Gotta be more relaxed and cool about it.

Oh, and what I think about her interest in you means bean-dip-sh*t. I can't tell you that from an interaction that I'm experiencing twice-removed.

But I can tell you that if you're concerned, you're focusing on the wrong part.

You should be doing the things that GENERATE attraction, and then going after what you want.

Stop trying to GET something so quickly and GIVE her something first. Give her a laugh, a smile, a bit of information about yourself.

Apartment number?

FREAKY....!

She's probably wondering if that "surprise" has to do with being duct taped and thrown in your trunk for a ride out to the country.

There's direct, and there's be cool AND be direct. Add in a few more cups of Cool and try again.

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