A post from 'C':

Here's a little something from the anonymous lady on the 'inside'...

So Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have glided across the threshold into matrimonial bliss. Who in their right mind, I would like to know, would dare criticize Ashton for choosing a woman 15 years older. Yes, an older woman. A woman, from my perspective, who is aging gracefully, is profoundly sexy, (with three beautiful teenage daughters) who by the way can perform one-arm push-ups amidst fierce multi-million dollar negotiations. (Women can do these amazing things- like work all day, schlep the kids around town, shop, cook, and still go salsa dancing until dawn.)

Yea, it’s true, women rock; and older single women- well let me tell you, they can make you tremble.

And why not, older women are in better shape, mentally, financially and physically then ever before. Hey- I can hear you mumbling under your breath- “oh yea, but with age and children come baggage and your not into the drama.” Ya know what I think; I think some men are afraid of the sexual and intellectual challenge mature women offer.

Guys, what are ya thinking? According to the U. S. Census Bureau, there are 10 million single moms in the United States alone. Most of them are not 19 year old, penniless teenage waifs looking for a meal ticket. Close your eyes, click your heels together three times and think about this... dating a beautiful woman, who has no interest in getting pregnant, does not need you to buy her dinner, diamonds or bus fare- who can pick up the tab if she so desires, and take you to scintillating sexual climatic heights, you have not even dreamed about.

A bit of caution, older (and especially alpha) women want to be with men not boys. You will need to acquire a certain level of sophistication no matter how old you are. But don’t get me wrong, we are not interested in suave, smooth talking, arrogant young men. Quite contrary, you can be confident and at the same time a bit vulnerable. It’s that fresh youthful vulnerability that turns us on- and you do not have to look like Ashton Kutcher, but if you do, I certainly will not run…

Speaking of running, I met this young man last week in one of San Francisco’s swanky downtown clubs. He was very handsome, tall, and sexy in his well-fitted designer suit.

Pierre had just moved here from Paris, and was staying at one of the other posh hotels in town. He had reserved a table near the entry and invited me to join him, along with one of his friends from Amsterdam. He ordered numerous items of haute cuisine from the menu, and a martini for me. I told him I had dinner earlier and that I would not eat anything. He said, “I had dinner as well, you will eat- you will need your strength for later.” He proceeded to tell me what he had planned for our evening, and it entailed going back to his hotel, where I feared, he was certain to eat me alive.

So I did what any mature woman would do- when the waiter put my cocktail in front of me, I glanced over my shoulder, looked Mr. Arrogant Pierre in the eye and said, “bye-bye.” I walked away too fast to look back; I could only imagine his expression. He actually had the tenacity to call me the next day and tell me if I met him for lunch I could redeem myself.

I do not know why younger men often ask me out; maybe I look 10 years younger- or I exude a kind of charisma and confidence that attract men. Perhaps, it’s because I live in a hip city where men are perceptive, confident, and ultimately very intelligent.

Well, I can tell you this; if you do not get your game together and dip into the warm, welcoming water of desirable women - you are missing the boat.

And you do know- I would never rob the boat, baby- just want to rock it…

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