How Do You Kill Attraction?

I have an important question that I think most guys are trying to understand. My question is what does it take to kill all the attraction inside of a women?

I mean, lets say you have been busting her chops for the longest time, not accepting her manipulative behavior, and acting like a man and you get nervous a few times around her, or you give up some control, is that enough to kill the attraction inside of a women?

Can a few instances like that kill the attraction? How does that work?

Thanks Carlos.

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CARLOS:

The truth is that it's much easier to kill than to create, which is what leads so many men to despair.

Yes, all those things you list can kill a woman's attraction for you.

But think of it this way: Attraction is like money in the bank. When you do something wussy, you make a withdrawal. When you act like an Alpha Male, you make a deposit.

The unfortunate thing is that withdrawals are much larger than deposits in this account, so one stupid screw-up will cost you quite a bit.

But it's more about how you handle YOURSELF than it is her. A woman will accept the occasional control violation if you are consistent with your character.

A confident man can be vulnerable. In fact, ONLY a confident man can be vulnerable in an attractive way.

Sometimes nervousness can be endearing to a woman as a slight vulnerability.

You're not trying to become the God of Confidence. You're still human.

But you should seek to make your insecurities and needy behavior as minimal as possible, so that they're the EXCEPTION, not the norm.

Ya dig?

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