CHANGE YOUR ALPHA MINDSET:

Thanks so much - we met up and I did exactly what you said, and she suggested we meet again at which point I did exactly what Dating Black Book/Seduction Method said...

I know you are a busy guy so let me cut to the chase.

You said in your book that the key was to find the need and fulfill it - I focused on doing that, and came up with - this girl falls into the intellectual category, is an only child and is looking to have her 'uniqueness' appreciated. Any ideas on how to fulfill this?

You are the best!
DL
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CARLOS:

1) Yes, I AM the best.

2) Stop trying to think about how to fulfill her. Start thinking about how she can fulfill YOU. Her reward is getting to have you in her life.

Start thinking about things from THAT perspective.

Don't run around trying to impress women. That's a losing game. Instead, think about how you can improve her life by just being a part of it. Through your confidence, your humor, your sense of adventure and FUN.

Do you hear where the difference is there in thinking? It's 180 degrees from trying to meet her expectations and all about having her meet yours.

There's a great line in "Coach Carter" where Samuel Jackson is talking up his team, the Richmond Oilers. And he says for them to stop playing THEIR (the other team's) game and make them play RICHMOND's game. Not the other way around.

Capisce?

Compliment her on the things that she would NEVER hear about from another guy. Cultivate an air of mystery about you.

Then move in for the kill.

I know you want to "figure her out" and plan a strategy, but don't get too far in her head. She's still a woman. Treat her like a woman - the way an Alpha Man would.

And watch out for only-child issues.

Her need is to feel special, so use the specific methods I've discussed for complimenting her CORRECTLY. (NOT the chump way.) That should help you quite a bit.

Also, since she's used to being an only child, that's a great way to bust on her when she starts getting bratty.

"Oh, so you're still used to getting your way, huh, 'only-child-girl'?"

Or

"Oh, you should have a t-shirt that says, 'can't play well with others'."

Of course, jokingly...

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