Monday, October 24, 2005

Women's Tests:


Carlos,

Today I approached a girl on campus and started talking to
her, busted her chops, made her laugh etc. When it was time
to go I told her to give me her number and she said, No
that's okay, I'm sure I'll see you around. I was stunned
because she didn't pull out the boyfriend card. She said
just look for me, I'm sure I'll see you around I basically
just smiled and walked away.

WTF? Any insight here? I guess it's good to get rejected
every once in a while anyway, but I would at least like to
know what happened.

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CARLOS:

My first guess is, she's testing you. And she's playing a little hard-to-get.

AND she didn't feel enough HSV (high social value) from you to want to give you her number.

Hey, she knows she'll see you around, and by refusing to give you it, that drives up your interest level in her.

And, yes, she KNOWS this.

Hey, you're emailing me about her, so it must have worked, huh?

Clever girl.

And it's not a rejection.

It's a wake-up call to meet 10 other women and watch how fast this woman will suddenly want to be with you. When she senses that you're a true ALPHA, she will be interested.

Sometimes it has NOTHING to do with you. Some women will not help themselves. They will, in fact, sabotage their own happiness to play silly little chick games.

Such is life.

And the next time a woman says to "look for her," you tell her that will be tough with so many other people out looking for YOU.

Turn it around, dude. It's your life.

Your reality.

What are you going to do with it?

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