ALPHA MAN COVERS HIS ASS

QUESTION:

There is this girl who lives below me in my dorm. When she is sober, she is the sweetest girl ever to me, but when she is drunk something is wrong with her. She ALWAYS hits me...and hits me hard, like in my stomach and my face. Last night, she hit me twice in my eye and tried to spit on me. I've never done anything to her!!!

Last time this happened, she apologized the next morning and claimed not to remember. I mean, she gets absolutely wasted everytime, but is only mean to me when she's drunk. I prevented her from hitting me last night a couple times, firmly, but she complained to my roommate I was hurting her. I was hurting HER?!?!?!?!

Give me a break! What the hell am I supposed to do? I'm going to go talk to her later on today, but what should I say? This can't go on, especially when I have done nothing to her.
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CARLOS:

Here's how I'd attack this one:


1) Talk to her again. Let her know that this behavior is unacceptable. If she continues, she's going to find herself in some deep shit.


2) Report her to your RA. Also, file a report or some kind of information and GET IT ON RECORD. If this girl decides to go formal and complain against YOU, you could find yourself looking for a new school, or even grabbing your ankles each morning so your cell mate can tickle his pleasure with the new kid fresh out of college.


Don't be dumb. Reality doesn't matter. Women are going to be believed more often than a guy when it comes to these things. Our society is predisposed to believe that men are rapists and killers, and that it's part of your violent nature that made you do what you didn't do.


3) Line up your witnesses. Make sure you've got a few people who are willing to support you and your story if she goes psycho.


4) Stay away from this girl. Never be alone with her.

EVER.

That last one should be a no-brainer, but chicks make guys do some incredibly stupid things sometimes.

And in case you feel like this goes against being an Alpha Man because you're tattling on a girl, guess again. You're not an Alpha if you're not thinking with your brain.

If you ever hit her back, you'll find yourself in the Hurt Locker.

She's got a drinking problem, and she's got some subconscious violent tendencies. She's also an instigator, and she'll leave trouble in her wake.

Let her spiral the drain. Just don't get caught in the undertow...

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