ALPHA MAN QUESTION ON CAMPUS:

First of all, I'd like to start out by saying thank you. Ever since reading the Alpha Man Program, my success rate with women has skyrocketed. I came out to school not knowing a single person. In the five days I've been here, I have hooked up with two girls and gotten 11 phone numbers with no problems at all. If people were to ask me who Carlos Xuma was, I'd reply with "The man who is helping men become men.

Now for my questions...

1. Now that I am out here, I have met so many women my head is still spinning. I don't even know who is who anymore. I only have a few male friends and about 8 or so girls that are friends and possibly more if I decide to go that route. Is it necessarily bad that I am interacting with women more than men? Do I really need that many male friends?

2. Some of the girls I met are into me a lot. I bust their chops relentlessly and they love it. The Boston accent also helps a bit. The thing is, some of these girls that call me all the time to hang out and meet somewhere with my buddy, flake out on us last minute. I almost feel like calling them out on their behavior. What could I say? Also, why are they doing it?

3. I have gotten the number of older chicks who are absolutely gorgeous. I'm thinking of asking them to meet up for some window shopping and coffee, but since my grandfather just passed, I have to go home this weekend. I don't want to call them too soon, but I don't want to wait too long since I can't go out this weekend. What could I do?

Thanks again Carlos. You the man.

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CARLOS:

Wow, that's putting the information to work, dude.

11 numbers in 5 days. Way to get busy!

Props to you.

I have to salute every guy that puts in the work and uses the information in the e-books and audio. But their best reward is knowing that if you USE the information, you will GET it, and the success will follow.

Let's hit your questions quickly:

1) Yes, you want a good number of male friends. Why?

First off, you have to stay in touch with your masculinity. You don't want to be smothered in estrogen. You have to keep your perspective.

Also, you want to make sure that women aren't taking over your life completely. When you don't have male friends to do male things with, it gets very weird, and you start behaving... well, a little feminist after a while.

They're not the enemy, but they're also not your brothers, if you know what I mean.

2) Call them on it, but do it with a funny tone of "Oh, you're one of those flaky little girls that hasn't grown up yet. How cute! Let me know when you turn into a woman that honors her word. Okay? Ciao!"

And why are they doing it? Because they're A) young, B) women, and C) they know they will probably get away with it. Women are about as consistent as the weather report for next week.

3) Tell her your situation. (i.e., the truth!) Tell her you have some personal family business to attend to (this always gets women's respect) and you'll be in contact when you get back. Maybe.

There's nothing wrong with the truth.

So many people avoid it these days that it's nice and refreshing to most of us when we hear it.

And if you want to read more truth, you can get it with the Secrets of the Alpha Man program ...

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