DATING ADVICE FOR MEN:

Hey Carlos,

I have been working with this girl from my job for about a month and a half now. When I first started working there, I was always cocky and funny and not showing her interest. This resulted in her being very attracted to me but the problem is that I want to show interest but I dont want to come across as a wussy. I dont know how to do that. How can a guy show interest to a woman without coming across as a wussy?

Thanks Carlos.
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CARLOS:

The key to this is to keep moving forward, but don’t express your interest in a way that says “I need you to approve of me.”

Things like compliments are wimpy.

Things like being too “easygoing” are wimpy.

Things like catering to her too much comes across as wimpy.

But remember, you don’t need to show interest in a woman!

It is not necessary to show her you’re interested beyond asking her out. THAT is how she’ll know you’re interested. Too many guys feel that they have to make some great proclamation of love to go any further with a woman.

You see, the point of the whole thing is to leave her WONDERING about you. That’s most of what generates her interest in you anyway.

Just take her out somewhere, and then show her some FUN.

There’s not much more to it than that. Don’t suffer from a paralysis of analysis. There’s a reason that word starts with “anal.”

:)

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