When she asks you trick questions...

I was hoping you could be kind enough to give me the benefit of your insights on a situation I was confronted with recently. I have been seeing this girl for a few weeks now and after a while I invited her over to my house. In the course of our conversation she, out of the blue, said I was just interested in getting into her pants than in true love.

Truth is I really didn't know how to handle it. Please could you advise me on how to defuse this kind of tricky situation. Please.

Yours sincerely,

J.O.
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:

The key here is to not get caught up in the trap of answering her questions.

When you think you owe her an answer, or you have a tough time coming from a place where you know this answer in your heart, you'll shake her confidence in you because you're not quite there in your own confidence.

When I got questions like this, I would always take some time afterwards to think through my answer for the next time I was asked.

You see, she's not asking you that question for an answer. She just wants to know she can feel safe and confident with you.

This is a classical "test" question from a woman. You'll hear it in many different ways.

What she's saying is, "Are you just some guy looking to get quick sex from me, or can I trust you?"

And under that question is this most basic question: "Am I special?"

When you can understand a woman's TRUE question, you will no longer be fooled with these tests.

And the faster you can tell her what she's really asking, the faster she will be yours...

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