Spice it up!

Carlos.

Thanks again for your great work. Once again I have to tell you how much I like your approach of dating and life as an alpha male in general. It is very close to my own beliefs.

You mention in this newsletter that you have worked in the IT field. I have a question about this.

When women ask what I do in life and I answer that I work as a telecommunication analyst, my answer is usually followed by either a long, awkward silence or a eeeewwwww comment... not very sexy as a profession to say the least...

How do you deal (or have dealt) with this?

Keep up the good work.

J. L.

Montreal
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

Well, handling this situation comes down to the following logic:

1) I kept getting this question from women: "What do you do..." Hmm....

2) I would eventually tease them and joke with the women that asked it. "What, are you a gold digger or something? I only date VERY rich women. I'm looking for a sugar momma."

3) After funning with them for a bit, inevitably I would still have to answer the original question in some way. (Or you look like you're avoiding the question and, therefore, embarrassed about your profession.)

So after the umpteenth time of being asked this, I knew I had to have my teasing/funny and cocky answer, and then my "blow them away" answer.

Here's what I did:

1) First of all come up with a way of looking at your job in a whole new way. Don't just look at it as what it is (or appears to be) but what it COULD be... Example: My mom worked with a guy who replaced light tubes in the classrooms of a local college. He described himself as a "lighting design technician." He thought outside The Box.

2) Use your passion as your description of "what you do." It doesn't have to be your JOB. (Unless the two are the same.) When I was working in IT (Information Technology) I would describe myself as a technical artist, facilitating the communication of people around the world. I was driven to create

3) Use either as your answer. Or both. (Preferred.)  Remember, it's not the answer that really matters. It's HOW YOU PRESENT IT.

It's not that you're a telecommunications analyst. It's that you didn't present it with the conviction and belief of an Alpha Man.

I cover what you need to do to develop this Alpha Power in your life (and in how you present what you do, which I cover specifically in the e-book) in the Secrets of the Alpha Man Program.

It's what you need to develop the inner game that will make your life what YOU want it to be.

And not just with women...

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