What to say (and NOT to say) to women...

Carlos,  I followed your tactics to the letter "T" and managed to get a few very attractive girls phone numbers from Myspace.Com.  These girls seemed to be blown away by my emails, which are simular to the ones you send.  All 3 girls denied the request to give me there number on my 3rd email, however after a couple more exchanges via email/Chat, they all gave it up.  I always wait a minimum 2 days before I call and NEVER on a weekend.



*First Girl (Taylor)*
I called last week and said hi, I'm Jim from Myspace.  She was like, "Hey".  I asked her what she was doing and she replied, " I'm bowling with my friends".  I figured there was no way I could hold a conversation with her when she was having fun bowling with her friends.   I said, "ok and that I would call another time."

I called her 3 days later, and got her voice mail, leaving a message that said, Hey Taylor this is Jim, I had a few minutes and thought I'd see whats up.  At any rate I'll call you some other time."  I called a few days later only to her never answering the phone for me, so I left her my last message that said, Taylor this is Jim, either your screening your calls or playing hard to get, thats cute.  I figured I would try you one last time.
NO REPLIES.



*Second Girl (Kaitlyn)*
I  got her number on Friday and decided to call it tonight, late Sunday night.  I called and said,

Jim: Heya Kaitlyn this is Jim from Myspace.  
Kaitlyn:"hey"
Jim: Heya Kaitlyn this is Jim from myspace.
Kaitlyn: hey
Jim: What are you doing?
Kaitlyn: Driving to a Graduation party.
Jim: Graduation Party in the middle of July, aren't they usually
held in June.
Kaitlyn: Yea and I have to babysit tomorrow.
Jim: That is going to be miserable for you tomorrow.
Kaitlyn: I can handle the mornings after party.
Jim: laughing....as you get a little older those mornings get rough.
Jim: so what is grotton like I never have heard of it.
Kaitlyn: Its a small boring town
Jim: no Macdonald's???
Kaitlyn: None

Uncomfortable silence

Jim: we had a block party here this past weekend, It was neat.   They
close the road and all the neighbors get together congregating in
the road playing beer pong and dancing.  It was alot of fun
Kaitlyn: Cool........Im gonna have to let you go before I lose cell service.
Jim: Ok I'll talk to you later

Total time on the phone 3:13 seconds.  I wasn't at a point to where I could end the conversation.



*Third Girl {Christina} *Now I went at this a little different, I didn't want to ask what they were doing to cut me off so short.  I shot
into conversation mode, and failed.

Jim: Is this Christina?
Christina: yes
Jim: This is Jim from Myspace
Christina: oh hey, how are you.
Jim: how was your wedding?
Christina: Good
Jim: Did you get drunk like a bad lil girl
Christina:no my family was there.
Jim: Oh I don't believe they are really that hard on you.
Christina: laughing....oh they are
Jim: so do you have any brother or sisters
Christina: 3 half sisters.
  Jim: who (got cut off)
Christina: Hey I am watching a movie so I'll call you tomorrow or
  something.Jim: ok Later

To summarize this Carlos, your methods to getting there phone number is great.  The 3rd email may not get it, but it appears the next email will.  How do we handle these first calls.  Keep in mind they are 19-21 year old girls.  I am gonna have to at least talk to them on the phone twice before trying to set something up.  

Right now bro, I am discouraged.  Pick me up!:)  I need to be better prepared to first phone calls and first meetings.  I wish you have ALOT more info on those 2 areas.  After the second date, I think I can't take it from there......

Thanks Bro, enjoy the sun

--------------
CARLOS:

You need to bust their chops a LOT more. 19-21 year old girls need a LOT of energy in the conversation or they’re going to check out. You just can’t ask boring questions and get away with it.

AMP up the energy – big time.

Remember the "E" in REAL is "Effective & Energized."

The one thing I see guys doing wrong all the time is that they go into an interaction with a woman and have a lazy, lose, hanging-with-the-boys attitude that is SO uninteresting to younger women.

Girls have an attention span of a ferret on Crystal Meth, as I like to say. They need more stimulation than an eight-year-old that is hard-wired into his X-box.

Here are some new things to say. Start busting these girl's chops:

- Hey, are you one of those crazy chicks that sets up her Myspace page just so she can look popular?

- Hey, I’m calling you because your Myspace page looks like my kid sister put it together. Do you really like that band “XXXXXX”?

- Is it true that Myspace girls are all spoiled little sorority girls?


Get things riled up with them... Be brave. What have you got to lose but a couple of cheesy ex-cheerleaders with no clue of how the world works.....

alpha man | how to talk to women | approach women | dating advice for men