INTERNET = BAD

Ok, getting numbers is easy, but the first meeting is giving me a bit of trouble...

My usual routine when first interacting with a girl I am interested in is to introduce myself, tease her, and use some push/pull techniques, which works like a charm in drawing her interest, and I get her screen name and number.

A few days later I contact them, and build rapport with them over the internet, but it doesn't seem to work so well when I suggest meeting up at so and so's to have coffee etc. I almost come off a little too cocky over the internet and I think this is a problem. Should I avoid talking online before getting to know a women really well?

Or sometimes if I call a woman and we hang out, then start to talk online, I think they get the wrong impression and things go sour. It's as though teasing over the internet is too complicated.

Advice?

And if I call them for the meeting they seem to flake out. What am I doing to kill the attraction when I first call or instant message her?


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CARLOS:

Stop going backwards with women.

By reverting to "instant messaging" you're ruining the chemistry. Stop using the internet to interact. This is where you're going wrong.

After you've met a woman in person, every meeting after that (with a few exceptions for phone) should all be in person. THAT is where you deepen the sense of connection.

Rapport and attraction are not built from watching letters appear on a screen. They come from direct, face-to-face interaction where you can physically touch another human being.

A woman will only meet with a guy that they feel they have something to gain with. A guy that they feel INVESTED in.

Think about it from her perspective: What have you done to make her want you?

Because if she isn't hot and bothered over you, she's not motivated to keep seeing you. Plain and simple.

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