GEEKS RULE THE WORLD:

I've been listening in on the Podcast for over a month now. I must say all of your advice is sound and eyeopening. I've gotten tips off other websites in the past and they all beat around the bush when it comes to actually giving the customer advice. Your Podcast alone has ten times the advice and no hassle. No playing around. Straight facts, great analogies, and to the point advice for guys out there (Like me) who need just a little bit of help when it comes to women.


My question is this:

I'm a junior in highschool and I must say I'm a bit of a geek. I take engineering programs, play Xbox and PS2 nearly all the time, and I am in every band program in the school. I am definetly the definition of "geek".

Somewhere in my past I've picked up the nasty reputation that I am a so-called, "Player". I will admit when I was younger I had a bit of a crisis with girls where I asked out a different girl just about every week or so. Now please, understand that I didn't just walk past a girl and immediately ask her out. In 99% of the cases I knew the person well and had a good friendship with them. Well as you can imagine my whole situation just spiraled out of control until I arrived where I am now. No girlfriend, no prospects, and no idea how I got here.

I sat down with couple of my good girl friends (friends that are girls, not dating partners) and asked them why no girls seemed to be interested in me. Everyone of them put my episode of asking out girls on a whim as one of my main problems.

Well, I have been thought about this for over two months. Then I found your podcast. Well, things started to clear up and I do see that that "episode" is one of my problems when it comes to me asking out girls. It seems that they all think that "He doesn't care about me because he asks out every girl he sees".

There is just one thing I cannot grasp.

"How I fix this mess and get back into the dating scene..."

I was wondering if you had any advice that might help in my plight against my bad reputation. I know its not my main problem though. Hopefully if I can get past this reputation as a guy that just asks out every girl that he sees, I might be able to solve other like "Being able to talk to girls" and such.

*Please note: This episode happened two and a half years ago. I would have thought it would have been forgotten by now. Obviously not*

Thanks Carlos,
Damien

I really love the Podcast and I am hoping to buy Alpha Man soon too. I love your work. Keep it up!
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CARLOS:

Look, your reputation is something that will follow you, but YOU can make it what you want.

Question:

How do you overcome this stigma of the guy who asks out all the women?

Answer:

Be more selective!

You don't have to ask out every woman around you. In fact, it's a good idea to not spread yourself around so much. You lose mystery and allure.

From now on, be social and curious, and let the women who are interesting rise to the top of the cream. They will when they see your social value.

Sometimes you can create a problem with too much of the right attitude, such as being easygoing and finding it easy to ask women out.

But as I'm sure you're aware by now, asking women out is not the right path.

You must have her attracted and invested in you before she will be interested in another meeting.

Start getting more women out in social situations where you can demonstrate HSV (High social value) and then you'll find yourself in a better social situation.

Women need to feel unique and special enough to warrant your interest, otherwise you're just like the other 5,432 guys who picked up on her this week.

So put the X-box down and start getting out with your friends more. Become more socially loose and you'll find that my strategies become MUCH easier to implement.

I suggest you get my Alpha Man program right away and start to cultivate that inner confidence and Alpha attitude sooner...

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