NO MORE "TRYING":

Carlos,

First off, let me tell you I've read your stuff in the past couple of days and I'd say it's got to be the best out there. I'm pretty close to buying your dating book, and I really respect alot of what you have to say about women.

I'm in college, 22 years old, and I've been talking to her for a while and I know she likes me, but she has a boyfriend. When we first started talking earlier in the fall, she didn't mention to me she had a bf until about two weeks in, so I was pretty hooked. Anyways, we kept talking on and off all of the fall, but I'm getting pretty frustrated with the whole boyfriend thing.

I think I've decided to take your advice and just not talk to her anymore and pursue other women. She told my buddy, "I would sleep with him if I didn't have a bf." I'm not going to be back at school but twice during the next couple of months to see some friends. Should I call her to meet up with her and play with her to try and pull her closer towards me or should I just keep going down my current path of not talking to her anymore, I haven't called her at all since(Nov 20th). I'm just very unsure of what to do, thanks for advice,

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CARLOS:


Wait a second, you're convinced my stuff is the best, yet you "think" you've decided to take my advice and start seeing other women...

Dude...! C'mon!

Here's a pal-to-pal mercy slap.... WHAP!

Stop “trying” with her. Remember Yoda? “Do or do not. There is no try.”

It sounds like you're "trying" in every sense of the word. Trying in thinking, trying in doing.

Trying instead of DOING.

Stop attempting and commit to accomplishment. It's what separates the average frustrated chumps of the world out there from the guys who get laid.

Stop calling her. Wait for a week or two. Then call her out of the blue and get her out of the house and doing something fun. Then, hit her with some of my attraction strategies.

Push through the barrier, because if she would “sleep with you” w/out her boyfriend, then she will sleep w/you when she’s still seeing him. It just takes the right approach and Alpha Attitude.

And get my book!

“Close to” doesn’t cut it if you want to get the goods on this girl... You could be “close to” her forever, and still be strangely alone tonight.... And the next night... And the next...


C

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