YOUNG ALPHA WANTS TO GET SMART:

Dear Carlos. Its J here ... I've been subscribed to your mailing list for a long time, (probably around 3 months)

When I got your "welcome to a better life" email again, I was touched. I knew I had to inprove my life, and do something more than just mooch off of emails and podcasts. So tonight, after I got home from my school band concert, I told my mom to take a look at your program. For some background info, my parents have always been real evangelical lutheran types - very peaceful, very nonviolent, and very non-conflictal.

After about a minute of looking at alphaseduction.com , she turned away from it disgusted. She gave me crap about how she was totally turned off by this guy and his talk about "seduction" and then told me about how seduction is using women for sex and hurting their feelings. She went downstairs to get my dad and see what he thought about it, and on the way back up I heard her say "women get it on with men because they feel cared about."

Anyway, my dad came up and he read it... about halfway through he just kept saying "go on" "ok, go on" really quickly, I don't think he was reading it at all. He told me about how it was very superficial, asked if you had any special qualifications like as a psychologist or anything.

When I told him about this one pdf you sent in an email once, he explained to me how that was a case study, and unless there was a study done on a large group of people with a test group and a control group, there was no proof and incentive to have anything to do with this program or advice. This reminds me of your one podcast where you talked about the man standing around the fire saying "first you give me some heat, then I'll give you some wood."

Do you have any ideas of what I can do in this situation? If I can't get this ebook, is there anything else you'd reccomend for me?

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CARLOS:


AH! This kind of letter always inspires me.

First of all because you're smart enough to want more for yourself, even being just a young man, but also because I LOVE IT when I shake the establishment.

Let me start by saying that your mom isn't wrong. She's actually correct. Women DO get it on with men who they feel care about them. (As it should be.)

But she's neglecting something VERY important:

A woman WON'T get it on with a guy who can't start up a sense of attraction and desire in her.

She won't get it on with a guy who isn't a REAL man.

Interesting that your mom didn't finish reading the page. She's quick to make a snap judgment based on the word "seduction," but the truth is that women want sex just as much (and I believe MORE) than men. The other truth is that I don't condone ANY kind of mistreatment of women. But I realize she wasn't willing to read that far.

Dig deeper here. If your mom could look back in time (and be honest), she'd tell you that there was something very attractive about your dad initially, and that had nothing to do with his caregiving. It was whatever his Alpha traits were that spiked her desire.

It was about sexual tension.


(Man, I feel gross talking about someone's parents like this. Almost as if I'm talking about mine. :)

Your mom either felt that sexual desire ... or she settled for a provider that would give her the best shot at raising a family.

Sorry, sports fans. I call 'em like I see 'em. And you'd be amazed to know how many:

- sexless marriages
- marriages of convenience
- marriages where one or both partners cheat
- lives without fire or passion

there are in this world right now.

Of the 113 million married Americans, some psychologists estimate that 15 to 20 percent of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year, which is how the experts define sexless marriage. And even couples who don’t meet that definition still feel like they’re not having sex as often as they used to.

How's that for information from an "expert?"

Did that help you get a woman interested in you? No. It was rational rhetoric. A great fact to know to realize that you better choose very carefully when you decide to marry. Because most people do NOT.

There are many "experts" that tell you that you should supplicate and treat a woman like a queen (which she doesn't want, by the way), while sending her roses and expressing your "true feelings" for her.

Quick question (and I DON'T want an answer on this) ... Are your parents still "getting it on?"

If they are, it's because there is still some sexual tension between them. And even though relationships evolve, the cold hard truth is that without sexual tension and, yes, a bit of CONFLICT, there is no real passion or desire.

Reality Check:

After thousands of years of study, not one "expert" or psychologist has been able to define the things that make women attracted to men.

But isn't it interesting how there are certain men who still get women? All the time?

Do they have a magical power?

NO.

Do they have a mind-control drug?

NO.

They have ABILITY and SKILLS that you don't. That's all. And if you watch them at work, you'll see that they're NOT doing what the conventional experts would tell you to do.

But the most important detail is this:

How many of those egghead experts is able to consistently arouse sexual interest in a woman?

Who are you more willing to listen to, a guy with a degree (oh, and I do have one, but not in this field - Thank God!) or the guy who is doing what you want to do, and getting the results you want to get?

This is an ART you're learning, not a science that you get a degree in. (If it was, don't you think they'd have a class called "Attract Women 101" offered in school?)

One of my mentors from days past used to say, "If you want to make a lot of money, study the guy that has a big pile of it. Not the bankrupt stock broker selling you his lame advice. If he's so smart, how come he's not rich?"

If you knew your parents when they were still all a-flutter with love mojo, you'd realize that they are no longer the same couple they once were.

Every single woman I talk to about the subject of attraction agrees:

Women want men who act like MEN, not the guys today who are afraid to be masculine.

EVERY woman I talk to agrees on this. Guys are getting pretty wimpy.

Why do you think women are so frustrated?

It's because we're men for a reason, guys... When you soften yourself up and supplicate, you betray your own identity. You don't turn a woman on by being more like a woman.

Be a man, and be proud of it.

If you want to know what your reason for being a man is, look HERE.

I would never encourage you to disobey your parents. Only you can make the decision that's right for YOU. It might be time to grow up and think for yourself.

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"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

Arthur Schopenhauer
German philosopher (1788 - 1860)

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