DATING ADVICE FOR MEN QUESTION:

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QUESTION:

I am a regular reader of your newsletters & I must mention that they are a real treasure house of knowledge in acquiring a vibrant and positive attitude for a life full of love n blissful relationships....keep up the good work Carlos !!!!.

I am also impressed with the recent article on the characteristics n attitudes of The Alpha Male& really imbibed a lot of it .

Now to something important...I'm an MBA student and was recently undergoing my summer internship with an International bank. Herein , I came across a female who was very beautiful & had a very reserved attitude towards men...n wouldn't talk to any of them. But as I was empowered with all the right info that u give through the newsletters, right from the first day I demonstrated authority, naughtiness, confidence n no wussy bag attitude towards women.....& lo a wonder .....she actually started talking to me .....n I continued further with this behaviour thereafter.

Then I also started cracking flirtatious jokes on her which really got her opening n she said that she really missed me in the last week .....when I hadn't reported to my office due to health reasons......such is the power of ur lessons sir.....Thank you so much ...so far...now....my questions to you are....

1. What do I do to further increase her attraction towards me & how do I maintain it?

2. How do I get her to declare her love for me....without me even asking for it...& also landing in bed with her without making her feel guilty or used up? please take note of the fact that she is 2-3 yrs elder to me...

3. How do I handle the issue of her seniority , if at all it crops up?

4. How do I deal with other competent men, who might try to impress her ...n How do I deal with this competetion...n save my lady?

Dear Carlos, I understand the fact that ur a very busy gentleman....n u might be getting truckloads of mails like mine daily.....but if u could plz advise me on these questions....then you would be simply making yourself proud by helping out a deserving n action oriented student of your system.

Also ....if u plz could give me a list of ideas / tactics as a ready reckoner so that I can Pull on till I'm able to raise up enough money to invest into your great products, since I'm just a student as of now...n will take sometime 2 start earning.

....thank you once again for the real world knowledge that u give....I wish these were taught in schools n colleges!!!

May GOD always be there on your side to shower his blessings on you....

Eagerly awaiting your HELP!!!!

REGARDS,
V, India
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CARLOS:

Ah, yes. Another starving student. I remember those days...

ANyway... Let's be clear, I can't possibly give you every little thing you need to get this girl to propose to you in a Q&A column.

I haven't got that kind of space, dude.

But, if you're really serious, I suggest you look really hard at your reasoning for what you want.

Is it for YOU, for HER, or for BOTH of you.

I suspect you're looking to play with the power a little bit, aren't you?

Go on, admit it. It's kinda neat when you learn that you can retain your self-dignity AND attract women, isn't it?

I think it's pretty cool, too.

But beware the Dark Side of this ... uh... power.

On the Light Side of the force, you must work to inspire her attraction so that you can continue on the path you're on... toward WHATEVER may come.

Maybe you'll get to sleep with her. Maybe not. But if you go in with this as your primary GOAL, you're missing the point.

And if you are hoping to turn it around so that she's groveling for your affections, that's missing it even further.

The point is to add to the positive vibe between you, and see where it will go. And it will go where it should, as all things must.

(Do I sound like a weird Kung Fu dude now?)

But let's throw question #2 of yours out of the mix. That's not the point.

As far as her age is concerned, it isn't a concern.

UNLESS YOU MAKE IT ONE!

2-3 years? Dude, I've seen women as much as 10 years older than me. And 10 years younger.

It's all good.

If she makes an issue out of being an older woman, you joke it off and keep going...

"What, are you one of those older women trying to seduce a younger man? I'm not that easy, Mrs. Robinson..."

(For those of you not catching on to the Mrs. Robinson comment, it's from the movie "The Graduate." Rent it sometime.)

Watch yourself on the "Save my lady" comment. She's not yours yet. Keep playing it cool, brother. Don't start counting chickens before they're hatched.

As for Competition...

Where?

Oh, it's not there yet, but you want to be prepared.

Here's the Alpha way of handling that:

COMPETITION DOESN'T EXIST.


It only exists when you start getting insecure enough to care, or start recognizing it as such. That's when she'll jump ship. When you show your true colors in the heat of the moment by getting jealous or insecure and needy.

The best way to handle competition is to PUSH her towards it.

If she goes, she was already going. There would be NOTHING you could have done. And now you're better off without an unfaithful and disloyal woman. Congratulations! That was a close one.

And if she doesn't go (which she won't if you handle your posture right), she now knows that you can live without her. As every woman MUST if she's ever going to respect you or stay with you for the long term.

Pretty simple, huh?

Now get the Alpha Man program and learn how this whole thing WORKS.

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