DATING ADVICE AND SEDUCTION TIP:

In the beginning you write in a negative way about NLP, etc. and at the end you write, and I quote:

"NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming - What it is, and how to use it to pull her in"

You also write:

"Overcoming the trickiest obstacles in seduction- like stealing her from another man, or if she knows you've got another woman!"

To steal somebodys woman is unethical and why do you talk about how one can feel illness when using NLP and in the same time offer NLP-techniques?

What is your response to that?

Thanks

Patrick
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CARLOS:

What is my response to that?

Gee, counselor, am I under oath?

First of all, I'm not on the stand. I don't have to defend myself to anyone. That's always been my attitude, and it always will be. (POWER to the ALPHA!)

However, since I always stand by what I say, and I've said something similar to what you claim, I'm putting this out in the public eye so I can give some meaning and better understanding to others who may wonder the same thing.

As Obi Wan Kenobi said so brilliantly, "You'll find that a lot of things in life depend on your point of view..."

First of all NLP is actually a valid technology. I started using some of this stuff way back when Tony Robbins was hawking it in all his books.

So, yes, you heard me right.

NLP can work.

IF it's done correctly, and if it comes from a congruent source.

The problem is that there are very few guys who can pull off NLP methods very effectively. There are only a couple techniques I would even want to use, and that's because they're common sense, like using the power of familiar touch.

AND the most important part to remember that NLP will not "hypnotize" her or get her to instantly jump into bed with you. That's the unrealistic expectation that's put out there by a lot of guys.

I don't want you to have that kind of misled mindset that you can just learn a few mystical words and women will flock to you when you whisper to them... Or that you can rub her back and give her a screaming orgasm.

NLP is very subtle. It doesn't have near the power and potency that the teasing tactics and other stuff I teach does.

It's that kind of thing that sends guys off on the wild hunt for the "short cut."

The quick and easy path.

And you know where that leads don't you?

If not, go watch those Star Wars movies again a few times.

I think most everyone learned that at an early age, yet we still keep looking for the fast track.

We're a McDonald's society, and we want everything NOW NOW NOW.

Well how about in due time?

When you do the right things and become the kind of man who deserves it?

Sorry, I get a little pedantic when it's near my sleepy-time...

You get my point, though, don't you? You just can't trust anything that comes too easily to you. And as they say in other places, there ain't no such thing as a free lunch.

But, however, yet, although...

You can use NLP strategies to help things along. And that's what I hint at during my audios and in the e-books.

NOWHERE do I say that this will be all you need to turn a woman on. It's SEASONING, not the main course. It adds a little extra nuance.

Without it you'll still do fine. But if you place all your eggs in this basket, expect a big mess in your basket.

Now, about the "steal the girlfriend" comment...

Look, guys, the reality is that going out and just trying to get between a guy and his girlfriend is most often just not necessary. Bad Karma. All that stuff.

But let's also be really honest about something else -

Most women don't leave their old vine until they've got their grip on the next one. (This is not true for all women, please note.) And no woman wants to think of herself as being alone. That would just suck.

So you should be ready for the woman that has a boyfriend, but not COUNTING on it. Don't actively undermine a good relationship between two people. That's just petty and malicious behavior that will get its due.

But if that relationship you see should go a bit sour, then you'd be dumb not to sneak in a few diplomatic visits to see if you can step in at the right time.

Just use your head and don't make everything so BLACK & WHITE.

Guys are famous for this. We're lazy thinkers, so we quickly categorize it as fast as we can, even if it's in the gray area that demands more analysis.

Chill out. Use your head. Let common sense prevail.

What's my Verdict?

INNOCENT.

You bet your ass I am.

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