SEDUCTION ADVICE QUESTION:

Dude, last night at a party, this girl was all over me - following me around, feeling and kissing me, etc. Every time I tried to leave, she would pull me back and keep me from going anywhere. She would even try to smooth my brother over right in front of me, as though to see my approval.

My buddy was trying so hard to get with her all night. He recently made out with her, but I have a few times before, so this girl has a past. Anyway, I finally got up and told him to sit next to her where I was just cuz he was practically on top of me trying to get at her. I was as care free as possible, but the next thing I know, she was touchy feely, kissy with him! What is that?

Furthermore, my other friend asked her if shes a cocktease straight up. She shrugged and asked him what he thought. He replied with if you don't go upstairs with my friend, I'll say yes. Next thing I know my buddy and her go upstairs. After they come back down, she tried to hug me goodbye and I denied her.

Finally, I see her all over two other friends of mine before she leaves. I understand she probably just wants attention, but where did I go wrong so I can fix it? I mean, I tried not caring and it basically backfired on me.

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CARLOS:

You should have said if you go upstairs with "me" instead of "him."

Never challenge a woman to do something with another guy. Only with you.

Second, just like Yoda says, you can't "try" to not care. You either do, or you don't.

There is no "try."

This chick is a player and a 'Ho.

You're better off moving on to a girl who won't try manipulating you with such obvious tactics.

There's a time to not care, and there's a time to take her by the hand and go where you want to go with her. She probably got sick of waiting for you to go forward.

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