DATING AND SEDUCTION ADVICE QUESTION:

Your stuff is the brilliant! It has really OPENED MY EYES! I have seen a lot more positive responses from women since using your techniques and I’m lovin every second of it.

My life has been much more enjoyable since using your techniques and attracting women the way a guy should. I have run into a small problem though and would like to be enlightened by your expert advice…

I’m in a long distance relationship with this girl that I’m really into (she had to move away for her university studies). I saw her during the holidays again, but there was a lot of signs indicating distraction/guilt/shyness while she was with me. I don’t know why or what it meant. I would like to send her an email, but I want to send her a mail that can flip the situation around and get her to talk about what’s bothering her and open up to me. Any advice on the contents or approach would be much appreciated


Your grateful follower

C, from Arizona
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CARLOS:

First of all, stop trying to read signs and hidden signs and crop circles and mystical patterns in her actions.

THERE IS NONE.

There is only this one thing:

Is she responding to you? Are you getting progress?

Or, a better question: Are you TRYING to progress?

Most guys will spend years trying to read the arcane signs of her behavior, not realizing that they are going to change every 5 damn minutes.

Forget signs.

Just go after what you want.

A wimpy man tries to sit back and watch for hints and signs that he should move forward so he doesn't have to risk rejection.

The Alpha Man goes out and MAKES IT HAPPEN.

Those two are as different as night and day, my friend.

And you don't need her to "open up" to you. She'd do that if she felt like you were her girlfriend.

Is that what you want to be? Then go the therapy route.

Otherwise, let her deal with her problems. You're not even sleeping with this girl and you want to take on her problems?

No way, dude.

And forget trying to send email or regular mail with some clever something in it to get her to "open up."

LAAAAAAME.

She's probably boinking some dude. Or she's thinking about it.

That's why she's guilty. She knows she can't be satisfied with "long distance", and honestly...

Neither should you.

Sorry to be the wet slap of "REALITY" here, but it's true.

Long distance doesn't work. Trust me. Start getting a few girlfriends in your neighborhood. You're too young to turn into a wuss waiting for this girl to cheat on you and turn you into a crying shell of a former-man.

And get my Alpha Man program.

Right now. I'm dead serious. I address this kind of thing in graphic detail in there. It's the program that men everywhere have been waiting for to reclaim their masculine power.

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