DATING ADVICE FOR MEN:

I have been flirting with a girl I have been friends with since the beginning of summer. I never took an interest in her until now. when I flirt with her she responds, but not in the same manner as newer girls. is there a different approach I need to try?

CARLOS:

Again, it's the friends first syndrome. You can't start out this way and turn it around easily unless she's REALLY into you from the start. The only thing that can be done is to push it to a decision point so that she knows she only has one way to go with you.

Get her out on a date, show her a fun time, make out with her, and see where you can go. Be willing to burn the friendship to get what you want.

Best bet is to have at least 2 other women for every "friend" you're trying to get. She has to feel how challenging you are.

That's my formula for maintaining the best attitude to ensure that you don't come down with "One-itis."

Remember, to get a romantic connection, you have to be willing to burn the "friendship" bridge behind you. You can't have them both until after you've got the fires of lust going.

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