What do women really want? More from my inside advisor...

I got this post for you guys from my gal-pal, currently immersed at a retreat especially created for Marin County residents, it would seem. (That's an inside joke for those of you in the Bay Area. I was once one of them and long to return to Marin...)

Anyway, here's a few words you should heed...

"When I think about potential places to meet guys, the bar scene rarely comes to mind.

Women will spend hours preparing for a date with the girls. The reality is (when we go out together) we are more concerned with how appealing we are to one another than to the opposite sex.

What women want is to spend an evening engrossed in conversation, impressing, and emotionally caressing one another.

It’s a rather narcissistic event- now that’s not to say, if we happened to attract the attention of a desirable potential suitor we would run and hide. What we will not do, under any circumstance, is abandon our friends for a fast fling, a one-night stand, or… well you get it… We are certainly not going anywhere with you boys, unless of course the rest of the girls are in tow.

Last week, I found myself emerged in one of the most profoundly glorious, indescribably magical places I have ever had the pleasure of visiting. It was a retreat of sorts, where people go to teach, learn, rejuvenate, and bare their soul or not…

Anyway, the first evening at dinner I met this young, attractive scholarly type guy. We chatted for a long time and retreated to the mineral baths for hours of inspiring conversation.

The next morning I ran into Andre at the lodge and he invited me to join him for a hike.

After an hour or so of rigorous hiking, Andre abruptly spun around (which was a little scary as we were hiking on a very narrow trail with the gateway to abyss looming directly under our heels) and in a somewhat jittery voice he asked me if I wanted to kiss him! Caught off guard, I kind of glanced at him a bit incredulously. He quickly gained his composure, and said, “Well I know you have been dying to kiss me, but I can’t oblige because kissing you would lead to certain doom. I have no desire to be the next coastal fatality for a mere kiss.”

While I was not looking for any romance, I must confess however, that his spontaneity combined with a touch of nervousness created an element of arousal. Ya know, it is sometimes as simple as creating obstacles that add to the attraction and ultimately lead to excitement."


CARLOS: Yeah, C, don't fall off the cliff yet. We have some business to take care of when you get back... :-D

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