DATING ADVICE - How to attract women - the RIGHT way:

Hey, Carlos A little problem I hope you can solve.

Yesturday I was talking with this girl online, And I tried to not to be NORMAL about it... Anyway, I said some challanging things that my parents (women) found out about, and now their giving me beef on it. Let me show you a, reenactment. Something along these lines


Girl - Actually, I sprained my ankle

Me - hey, no amount of fast running will get you a spot on bay watch

Girl - I'm too hot for bay watch

Girl - J/K

Me - so you mean your not hot?

Girl - I don't know, what do you think?

- This, I thought about for a few seconds

1. could supplicate and say she is the hottest thing sense french fries

2. could not have an opinion

3. say something a little cocky, to challange

So I went with option 3

Me - Honestly, I think you have hot legs.. But I'd give you a 5 out 10

Girl - thx Z...
(not sure if this was sarcastically)

Anyway, at the same time I was talking to my other friend... Finally she responed.. Unfortunately, it showed her self - esteem, and the validation she needed. She talked to this other kid, and he told her to say this.

Girl - this boy told me 2 tell u 2

Girl - go f yourself

Girl - because I told him you gave me a 5 out of 10

I thought for a second, she's trying to get me to change what I said... Well HE said this, so you should think I'm hot too... From his response I could tell he liked her... As far as a response, I thought.

1. I Could say I'm kidding, supplicate up to her and say she's really a 10 out of 10 (not challanging)

2. Or Could go all extream and start telling the kid off (show's defensiveness)

3. Or stick with answer, And show I'm not backing down.. (chose this one)

Me - This boy huh, Well I don't really give an f about what he thinks... He obviously has no standards...

Waited for her to write back

Was this the right way to do this, or did I really mess it up?... My parents think I should of given her a higher number, and that a five is telling here off.. It's funny because most men don't know anything about attraction, and most women don't even know what they want.. So who do you turn to... I'd admire that you were able to pull through all these lies of women, without much help...

Thank you for reading this somewhat long article, hope you can help.

Sincerely,
Z
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CARLOS:

Well, I wanted to include this example to show people what it looks like to bust a girl's chops, as well as how you keep up the tension between you and her to a high level.

You did all the right things, and you even rationalized it out (in chick-logic) what the possible responses would be, and what reaction you would get for each.

Bravo!

And with the divorce rate exceeding 50%, and sex-less marriages even higher, do you really want to take advice from your PARENTS?

Come on... Like my old boss used to say, you get your money advice from someone who's RICH, not some fast-talking stockbroker who's barely able to make his car payment.

And here's something else that most guys never realize: If you can't keep her hot and bothered for you by giving her a little challenge and constructive resistance like this, YOU WOULD NEVER GET HER ANY OTHER WAY.

No, she would not want you because you became Mr. Sensitive.

No, she would not suddenly cave in and fall for you because you professed your love to her from the street.

No, she would not suddenly start chasing you if you told her she was the hottest thing since lava.

She'd just lose interest in you, and very rapidly.

A lot of guys turn their back on this Truth about keeping a woman challenged and showing her an Alpha Man the second they don't get instant success. You've heard that saying, "Don't hate the player, hate the game"?

The honest truth is that in this game, it's ALWAYS the player.

And the average frustrated chump loves to blame the game, never the player. And as a result, they never improve. They just keep shrugging their shoulders and saying, "Women! Who understands them?"

Yeah, dude. Go buy yourself another beer to cry in... I'll be back later...

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