Should a woman know about her competition?

Carlos,

I have a question. I have been implementing your techniques on almost every girl i meet now, especially good looking ones. However, while doing so I have managed to attract more than one of them, and I am more fond of one than the other. But I havn't been physical or anything with either one of them, because both seductions are still in the opening stages and they are just feeling a strong sense of attraction for me.

I know I can and I want to take it to the next level with both of them, at least until I disqualify one of them. But the one I am more interested in right now knows about her competition, will this hurt me or help me?

I don't want her to be turned off because she thinks I am a player or that I have no interest in her. If it does hurt my seduction, what should I do about it?

Thanks for everything,
T in VA
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CARLOS:

This is a common misperception among guys, that they will somehow be perceived as a "player" if they date more than one woman.

The fact is that a woman most often makes this "player" distinction about you based on your attitudes and presence in your first introduction. She may get the vibe later, but it's not because you date other women. It will be because she lacks trust in you.

If this is a concern of yours, inoculate her against it.

Casually bring it up in conversation:

"You know, a lot of women think my friend is a player just because he dates more than one woman. It's a shame, because it really just shows he's smart about looking for a woman that meets his requirements. You can't rush into a relationship these days."

Boom.

Handled.

The reality, again, is that a woman wants what other women want. Dating other women will only help you.

Remember, you act based on PRINCIPLE, not to manipulate a desired result. You date more than one woman because it's the right thing for a man to do at the early stages.

If she runs away because of the competition, imagine what kind of self-esteem she must have. She would have bailed on you eventually. You want an Alpha Woman that fights for what she wants.

If she doesn't, she didn't want you enough.

Now, if you want to learn how to handle this situation in more detail, you need to cultivate the Alpha Lifestyle.

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