How long will it take to "get it?"

Dear Carlos,

I bought all these books and I said I am gonna read "The Game" last, what a mistake. I don't know if you have read the other books but basically they are about asking open ended questions, how to compliment women, how to dress and one of them even gives advice about men's underwear

After I finished them I started reading The Game. After I read a few chapters I said "come on man no fcunikg way!!" It's just an imaginary community to sell the book and earn money. I knew about NLP and anchoring already. When I read the thing Ross Jeffries has done in the pizza shop I said this is possible and decided to search it. I googled the community and shit!! They are all real. I was really impressed.

Now I live in London. I am a university student and I am 19. I am from Cyprus and English is not my native language. When I came here this was fucking me up but by now I have been here for 1.5 year and I am getting used to this language. I am telling this because I think this is one of my sticking points, may be the biggest one. 80% of pick up is what you say I think.

I am sure you would ask my score. I tell you. I kissed only once. To be honest it wasn't my victory she was the one who kissed me. I considered my score as '0' and I am still a virgin. During my entire life I have always been rejected by the girls that I felt in love. I wasn't a popular student in school. Now I have an one-itis for about 5 years who always fucks me up!

... I know it depends but I wanna ask this. How long do you think it takes from AFC to PUA?? How much should I spend on seminars and workshops and for other stuff and the most important thing where should I start from!!? During the summer I am planning to go to America and Canada for pick up workshops but it's not definite yet.

Thank you for wasting your time for me and reading the letter of a desirous AFC. Now you know what my life is like, can you please give me hand and show me a way to get out from this life? What are your advices that I really need to know? I am looking forward for your reply…

Respect my Mate...
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

What I'm noticing with a lot of guys with "book knowledge" of this topic and the art of attraction is that they are lacking in one very important area:

CONVERSION

That is, they need to convert their "imagined" experience and knowledge from reading e-books and listening to programs into REAL experience in the field.

What does that take?

Just going out there and interacting with women everywhere you possibly can. Most guys don't actually fail with women just because they don't have the skills. That's really an indirect symptom. The reality is that they are failing because they won't push themselves out of their comfort zones into a place where they can learn much faster.

Everyone wants to know "how long?" to get this stuff.

I can only tell you "how long is a piece of string?"

EVERY person differs, and I can't possibly even give you an ESTIMATION. Sorry, I just can't. Anything I say would only serve to raise more self-limiting beliefs in your head.

It's going to take as long as it takes for you. No longer, and no shorter. If you work hard, you can do this in a floggity-krum of weeks. (That's my clever name for AS MANY AS IS NECESSARY.)

The good news it that you control how long it will take.

How can you shorten it?

You can compress time frames by finding short cuts, or maps through this hazardous wilderness. Getting a good roadmap is as simple as downloading my basic program to help you become a better MAN.

An Alpha Man.

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