Field report - California Alpha Man
... I just had to share this with you. I met this girl on an online dating service, and we went out the other night. Well, we had a really great time, but shared no kiss, just a hug, but I DID NOT ASK HER OUT on a 2nd date, purposely.
The next day morning came and went and then I emailed her in the afternoon (see the actual email from me below) and I still didn’t ask her out, just to see what would happen. Well my friend, she sent me an email back a day later (see the actual email from her as well) and she’s practically begging me to meet her this weekend, this week and/or next weekend.
This has never happened to me before. With holding the request, does work. I still haven’t responded to her email request below, but I defiantly will. I don’t want to sound too eager though, I'd love to see her tonight. But I think I might let the anxiety/ sexual tension grow just a little longer. What do you think?
Check this out:
Here’s the email I sent to her the next day (in the afternoon.)
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Hi L:
Just wanted to drop you a quick note to say hello, and to let you know again that I had a great time last night. Sorry, I wasn't feeling 100%. I think I've been a little under the weather. Any rate, you're a lot of fun to be with, and I definitely think I met my match with your communications skills. :)
take care,
S
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(Carlos, this is her reply today)
Hi, S! I hope I have your e-mail address correct...otherwise, I'm sending this to someone else's crappy e-mail. If you'd like, you can e-mail me through this account...although I only use it for the Match e-mails, so you'll be lumped in with all the "Starbucks but I'll think I'll have Tea" guys' e-mails!...or you can send to which is my personal e-mail...and I'll pay much more attention to you! :)
I hope you are feeling better. I couldn't tell that you didn't feel well. Ironically, I also wasn't feeling 100% yesterday, but I'm so glad we both made it. Imagine how much fun we're going to have when we're both in tip top condition!
So, speaking of having fun...when would you like to get together again? I have plans with my girlfriends early Friday evening, and I thought about catching up with you afterwards if you are available, but I'm not sure that seeing you after the possibility of a couple of drinks would be such a good idea! So...
... Maybe we can go see the Casino Royale movie. Is it still playing? If not, you've seen it enough times...you can just act it out for me! Or we can go wine tasting, go shop for golf clubs...
Well, this is a lot of information, and I don't even know if this is your e-mail address! Let me know when you've been able to process all my babbling!
L
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CARLOS COMMENTS:
Just a note to the readers: Yes, this is the kind of affect you can have on a woman when you leverage REAL Game attraction principles with a woman.
I would get this all the time. I get women calling me from online services. Here's one that I got from a woman online:
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Carlos,
I am glad to be done w/the exchange of questions...! I would much rather meet and speak w/you in person! Let me know if you are interested, I can take you to lunch or dinner? There are some great places on S.R. My cell is XXX_XXX_XXXX.
L
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Yes, that's real. Yes, she was very attractive. Very slim.
Now, for some guys, this would seem a bit of a miracle - having a woman offer to take HIM out to dinner before she's even MET HIM!
But that's how effective you WILL be when you project the right attitude and Alpha Behaviors that women are looking for.
Here's the funny thing that most guys don't realize: When a woman finds a good Alpha Man, she loses all control of her behavior because it is SO rare to encounter. She's used to guys that kiss her butt all over the place, dying to get a piece of her time (and maybe a piece of something else, too.)
Instead, if you play the game cool, your success rate SKYROCKETS.
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