Questions about how to GUARANTEE a woman...
Dear carlos xuma
I really want to thank you for all the tips and lessons that you gave me untill this day, but I was wondering if you can change the subject into some thing else like, when some one is in a relationship with a person he loves,
1.how is he supposed to know if thats the right person for him?
2.how is he supposed to know if it is true love?
3.how does he make sure that after 20 or 30 years this guy will still be in love with this girl?
4.what are the signs she will give if she is really in love?
5.how can he be sure that he loves her, what is there to make him be sure and say that I love her?
Thank you for your time hoping to hear from you soon.
- M
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
1. You can't unless you've taken the time to write down the qualities of the woman you want. This seems so obvious, but less than 1 guy in 50 has written down the qualities of the woman that he's looking for.
2. "True Love" is fairy tale romance crap. There is only the woman you are with, and what you make of it. REAL love is simply the forging of an ongoing connection with a woman day after day. You can't be sure of anyone else's experience but your own.
3. You can never guarantee or "make sure" of the future of your feelings. The best way to ensure a high-probability that you'll still want her is to CHOOSE WELL AT THE START!
4. The signs are that she will still be with you and loyal to you, and meeting your criteria for a happy relationship. And if you're really attuned to what's going on with her (without experiencing those same emotions) you'll always know where she is.
I discuss the things you want to look for in my Dating Black Book.
5. You can never be completely sure of anything, but you can be sure enough.
There are no guarantees in life, dude.
Take what you have and MAKE it what you want. Stop looking for the "sure thing." That's scarcity thinking.
If this thing doesn't work out, you've got another thing just around the corner because you've taken the time to be an ALPHA MAN.
I really want to thank you for all the tips and lessons that you gave me untill this day, but I was wondering if you can change the subject into some thing else like, when some one is in a relationship with a person he loves,
1.how is he supposed to know if thats the right person for him?
2.how is he supposed to know if it is true love?
3.how does he make sure that after 20 or 30 years this guy will still be in love with this girl?
4.what are the signs she will give if she is really in love?
5.how can he be sure that he loves her, what is there to make him be sure and say that I love her?
Thank you for your time hoping to hear from you soon.
- M
______________________
CARLOS ANSWERS:
1. You can't unless you've taken the time to write down the qualities of the woman you want. This seems so obvious, but less than 1 guy in 50 has written down the qualities of the woman that he's looking for.
2. "True Love" is fairy tale romance crap. There is only the woman you are with, and what you make of it. REAL love is simply the forging of an ongoing connection with a woman day after day. You can't be sure of anyone else's experience but your own.
3. You can never guarantee or "make sure" of the future of your feelings. The best way to ensure a high-probability that you'll still want her is to CHOOSE WELL AT THE START!
4. The signs are that she will still be with you and loyal to you, and meeting your criteria for a happy relationship. And if you're really attuned to what's going on with her (without experiencing those same emotions) you'll always know where she is.
I discuss the things you want to look for in my Dating Black Book.
5. You can never be completely sure of anything, but you can be sure enough.
There are no guarantees in life, dude.
Take what you have and MAKE it what you want. Stop looking for the "sure thing." That's scarcity thinking.
If this thing doesn't work out, you've got another thing just around the corner because you've taken the time to be an ALPHA MAN.
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