What do you do if you catch a woman cheating on you?

Hi Carlos,

I hope you are doing find out there. First let me thank you for your help to me that I've become so successful with women through your various programs. I have bought most of your programs, advanced audio coaching, dating black book and approach women now, all of them are great and changed me completely. Made me stronger and confident around women and in my personal life, other than dating women.

How would you react in the following situation?

You date a girl for 4 months more or less having a good time in all respects and one night you ask her to go out she says sorry made plans to go out with my girlfriends and that nite you go out with your male friends and it happens that you see her in the same club with another guy, not her lost lost brother.

How would you react?

-indifferent

-confront her and ask what's her story and then dump her on the spot since she lied to you

-ignore her and hit on other girls and tell her the next day she is history or

-dump her without even contacting her ever at all or if you still want to keep for whatever reason, then how would you react

Your comments are appreciated

thanks Carlos in advance and keep up the good work for all us guys who are motivated to be successful with women

regards,

A from sunny Cyprus
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CARLOS:

You know, there are many ways to handle this kind of situation, from the indignant to the indifferent.

But you want to know what you should do if you catch your woman cheating on you, right?

I would personally go over and make sure she knew I knew. But I wouldn't go over in an accusing way. I would walk up and say, "Hey! I didn't know you were coming here with your girlfriends! Cool!" Then I'd turn and introduce myself to the guy. I'd buddy up with him.

Then I'd excuse myself politely to get back to my friends. And even if it was eating me from the inside out, I'd be happy and having fun with my friends for the rest of the time I was there in the same place with her.

This is what I call "tainting the waters." There's going to be some weirdness for her and him if she is cheating with him, and you get to be the confident guy that acts like he could care less if there's another guy with his woman.

The fastest way to attract your girlfriend back to you is by letting her go (unless she's already on her way out, in which case you just hurried things up.)

But lets say you weren't as fast with your thinking and you never confronted the situation as it was...

A day or two later, you call her and ask her how her night was. Without being too much of a nosy guy, you ask her a lot of questions about her evening. See which details come up, and which stay hidden.

But in no way should you EVER become jealous.

Alpha Men have too many women in their lives to worry about the one that isn't sharp enough to spot a good catch.

In fact, the feeling I have inside when this USED to happen was DISAPPOINTMENT. I was let down that she could be so common.

Not every woman can come out a winner in my world. Only the smart ones.

Get it?

By the way, if you'd like to learn a technique to NEVER have women cheat on you ever again, I've included it in the Session 35 Advanced Coaching. You can still get it with Session 36 here...

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