When a woman punches you in the gut, and how you lose control

You ever get 'hooked' on a girl, maybe you go out and have a great time together, and then you show her a little attention, but you don't get what you expected back? In fact, she just ignores you, for the most part?

Doesn't that feeling just suck?

It's like you were punched in the gut, and it leaves a sinking feeling behind to remind you that maybe she's not as into you as you thought. And then you get caught up in that dysfunctional state of mind where you start fishing for feedback in an attempt to get her interested again - or maybe just get a signal from her that she is still interested.

"Wait... is she still interested? What happened?"


Stop looking for indicators and signals.

This kind of seeking her reciprocation is how most guys are turned into the "nice" variety.
You start seeking her response more than you go on being an independent and cool dude, and she starts to pick up on your neediness.

Things get ugly from here, as she is inspired to give less and less to you because she feels crowded and pressured.

You end up wanting more and more because you're getting less and less.

Watch out for this wicked - and toxic - spiral.

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