Why do women need to go from boyfriend to boyfriend?

Carlos, with Women seemingly monkeys of the jungle, how can any guy ever trust there sincerity?  It doesn't seem to matter if they are just getting out of a 4 year relationship or 4 months.  Within a matter of a few weeks they have a replacement.  

Maybe it is because I am younger, 25, but I constantly see a girl go from guy to guy.  I really have a hard time respecting someone when I don't feel they are respecting themselves.  Why is it that I RARELY see a girl take some time to get her shit together before dating again while guys typically take some time to focus on themselves?
  
Jim
 
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CARLOS:

It's funny because I'm watching this unfold for me right now.

Here are my thoughts on this:

First, women are different than men in psychological makeup. They are raised with the "Disney Delusion." That's the programming instilled in them from movies from fairytale romances that their prince in shining armor is waiting to find them.

Remember the nature of each gender: Men are brought up to be stoic and independent. Women are brought up to be social and connected.

I believe that women find it difficult to be alone after a breakup because this only compounds the feelings of "rejection" and awareness of their lack of connection. Their most important connection has just been lost.

The answer is that it's easier to get immediate relief than it is to go through the pain of being alone.

So which would you choose? Especially when the next boyfriend wannabe is just one drink away?

Women can get a new guy like that (sound of my fingers snapping.)

Guys re-validate themselves be re-establishing their most important gender trait: Independence.

So I no longer see it as a condition of "right" or "wrong." It's just a difference between us.

What you have to do is protect yourself, not judge women.

As men, we must watch out for women on the rebound, as well as help women by being our strong independent selves. This situation just doubles the need for us to stay in emotional control and not come on too strong with women.

If you want more information on how to be this man that is in control, take a look at these Alpha traits.

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