Oh boy....

This email just came in. I feel like it's a cry for help from a guy that is rapidly going the wrong way. I want you to read it and see if you can read between the lines and see what is going wrong...

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QUESTION:

my gf broke up with me she said she needs time to think about our relationship and c if its the write thing for her i have been with her for 7-8 months
now and she told me she wants to move in with me and that she loves me..and
then she said i need to think about it... i bought a fucking house for her i
want her back please help.

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CARLOS:

J, this is a tough situation. It's not something I can answer for you in a single email, because there are deep problems here that need to be looked at.

1) Why in the world would you buy a house for a woman? (I know the answer to this, but do you?)

2) She needs time because she's not feeling attracted to you. (Yes, she can say she loves you all she wants, but that doesn't make it true, or make her stay with you.) Chances are, you're too needy or clingy and not demonstrating enough Alpha behaviors. You need to back off and let her breathe and discover why she needs you all on her own. If you meddle in it too much (I suspect you're calling or writing her a lot right now, aren't you?), you will push her even further away. GUARANTEED.

3) Why do you want her back? For her, or for you? If it's just for you, you'll never get her. If it's from a fear of loss, that's coming from NEED and a big hole within your own self-esteem.

Please take a look at my Dating Black Book right away. It's the only thing to save this relationship for you...

If things keep going the way they're going, you WILL lose her.

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