Delete her... then delete HIM.

I deleted my ex from my life. And as I said I'm meeting A LOT of women and it's a lot to keep up. But My Best Friend is still hanging out and talking to my ex. She stayed with him a week after we broke up. He and she said nothing happened but come on really.

But I've known this guy as a friend for about 12 years. I sent him an email saying its a slap in the face but how would you handle the situation?

thanks for all your help.

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CARLOS ANSWERS:

I'm sitting here with a wry smile on my face, shaking my head and sighing.

You can imagine what I'm thinking, can't you?

Your 'best' friend, huh?

Not really. Not if he "helps" a friend out like this.

Just imagine, a few years down the road, and you're hitting a tough spot with your wife. Your 'friend' says, "Hey, buddy, no worries. I'll help you out any way I can. You can even come here and stay at my place few days if you need to get away from her. I'll even go over and check to be sure your woman is okay, too. How's that?"

Wow. What a buddy.

NOT!

What I sense here is a guy who doesn't feel you're an Alpha enough to stick up for yourself, or the sanctity of the friendship. Even if nothing happened (which I'll admit is a possibility), he should have refused if he was any kind of THOUGHTFUL friend.

I think that HE thinks you're a pussy, and he can walk over your friendship if it suits him. Then he's going to bang your confused little girlfriend. Sorry to be blunt, but I tell the TRUTH here.

You know what I say? F*ck all this feel-good nonsense and make sure he knows EXACTLY how you feel, and EXACTLY what the repercussions are for taking your friendship for granted.

You sent him an Email?

Are you KIDDING me? What kind of scolding is that?

Call him up and give him a piece of your mind. He's playing you for a chump, or he's got all the awareness of a piece of astro-turf. Either way, he needs a good talking-to.

No one respects what they do not fear a little, my friend.

Or at least fear losing.

I discuss this and many other essential elements of being a dominant male in my program: The Secrets of the Alpha Man.

PS: But once this has been resolved, please find a way to let it go and move on, for everyone's benefit.

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