SUCCESS STORY
Here's a little story for you guys out there who want to know about another guy's experience and how he overcame it.
The ESP trick he talks about is to ask a girl to think of a number from 1 to 10. Most of the time, she's thinking of 7. Try it out sometime.
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Carlos,
I wanted to relate a story. I literally just started listening to your podcast this past week end; 12 Mar 06... I purchased one of your products, The Dating Black Book.
As a point of reference, I have only been learning about Seduction/Attraction for a little more than a month now. I just stumbled upon the topic at iTunes and soon began absorbing the information like a sponge.
The part that has interested me is the insights into the female psyche. I've never had a problem approaching women or showing value. "Cocky Funny" comes naturally to me and I have a relatively high IQ. Not trying to boast, it is simply the truth. You don't do what I do and work for whom I work without being tested along the way!
But, I fall prey to the 'One-itis' bug every time. In fact, I've worn the fact that I'm a one woman man as a badge of courage and honor. I literally would tell a woman that I am always exclusive with women. I've never felt the need or seen the sense in dating multiple women. My reasoning for this is that I like to make a deeper connection with fewer people in all my relationships. It's an energy thing that I'm certain you understand.
That's the background. Now the situation. Late last year I met a woman when I wasn't even looking. With my new knowledge I think she probably seduced me. However it was not all that it seemed. She had a boyfriend in a long distance relationship. He is a D.I. in San Diego for the Marines. She and I are here in the midwest. We strike it up and I indicate interest very strongly. She's a little reserved and over time I understand the source of her reservations to be; she doesn't trust easily as she has been hurt badly, she's not sure about her relationship with the Marine, but won't cheat on him, wants to take it slow, be friends first, etc.
Of course, all this makes perfect sense to the unenlightened me and I buy it hook line and sinker. Over the course of a few months we do make a certain emotional connection and she an I speak to each other daily. She tells me over Christmas that she's going out to San Diego over New Years for graduation of one of his classes; that he's been
alluding to the idea that he wants to ask her to marry him. She tells me that she won't do it. I'm skeptical, but will wait and see. She actually calls me from San Diego to tell check on me and tell me that she's turned him down.
During her absence, I find a blog for the dearly departed in the name of her father who passed last year. In it, I find a post from her mother oestensibly to her deceased father telling him that my love interest is intending to marry the Marine. Wow! Without revealing how I know this I confront her with it when she returns.
She to this minute denies that she is getting married.
Now here's where your help comes in. First, I've been so intrigued by this new information for the last month that I'm actually in
various stages of attraction with 5 other women. All of this began prior to me learning of the impending nuptials as I had recognized that I was in a position of weakness with this woman.
Now, I'm listening to you and reading the Q&A that comes with the Platinum
program. In it you address the all to common question of how to I get her back. The answer being you don't with the remote exception possibility of if one is willing to loose a friend to gain a lover.
Well I don't want to gain a lover as there is no future with a liar. But I would like to get some of my dignity back. So, without malicious intent, I broke it off with her after I confronted her. And relying on the principle that women want what they can't have waited for the phone call. It came a week later. She inquired as to whether I had sent her flowers anonymously for her birthday. It was a bogus pretext for the call on many levels. But I had my affirmation. Funny thing all my juices were flowing then and they were driving me to try to hook up with her again. But I resisted and went to a strip club to practice my game. I had a great time with two girls at the same time. I number closed one of them.
I did many of my own little 'cocky funny' things, goofy stuff, and threw in some stupid little mind teaser tricks to add value. In the past I would not have done that last thing. I would have simply looked for her to be a good conversationalist. Lazy, I know. But the best was how easy some of the stuff from the game was to pull off. I did the infantile ESP pick a number from 1 to 10 thing. One of the two girls literally went reeling across the room during a lap dance when I guessed her number so fast she had barely had time to think of it. I did it to the other girl too an she was shocked. I know I am such a neophyte at the game, but the little bits that I know are all so much fun. Simply because they are showing me a side of women that I never knew existed.
I'm such a left brain analytical thinker, none of this was even conceivable to me. Everything had to fit a linear pattern or it didn't exist for me. Well after 3 marriage in the dust bin of history for me, I'm finally learning a little about women. Thank you and all the others in the community for helping to level the playing field. I am certain that I will be a loyal and dedicated student. I'm having too much fun.
G
PS... I haven't thought about the lying girl or felt any emotion for her since about 21:00 last night. Amazing how powerful this stuff is at reestablishing self-confidence.
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CARLOS:
Amen to that, brother!
It's truly an eye-opening experience to find out how the social marketplace REALLY works out there. And it's incredibly empowering to learn that these strategies can give you a sense of power again over your own life.
Guys want and need choices and options. When we feel like we have no choice, we get frustrated and lose our cool.
Dating and Attraction is all about that. What I teach is all about that.
Giving men back their sense of power and confidence with women.
And giving them OPTIONS.
Here's a great place to get some options for yourself:
ALPHA MAN
The ESP trick he talks about is to ask a girl to think of a number from 1 to 10. Most of the time, she's thinking of 7. Try it out sometime.
--------------------
Carlos,
I wanted to relate a story. I literally just started listening to your podcast this past week end; 12 Mar 06... I purchased one of your products, The Dating Black Book.
As a point of reference, I have only been learning about Seduction/Attraction for a little more than a month now. I just stumbled upon the topic at iTunes and soon began absorbing the information like a sponge.
The part that has interested me is the insights into the female psyche. I've never had a problem approaching women or showing value. "Cocky Funny" comes naturally to me and I have a relatively high IQ. Not trying to boast, it is simply the truth. You don't do what I do and work for whom I work without being tested along the way!
But, I fall prey to the 'One-itis' bug every time. In fact, I've worn the fact that I'm a one woman man as a badge of courage and honor. I literally would tell a woman that I am always exclusive with women. I've never felt the need or seen the sense in dating multiple women. My reasoning for this is that I like to make a deeper connection with fewer people in all my relationships. It's an energy thing that I'm certain you understand.
That's the background. Now the situation. Late last year I met a woman when I wasn't even looking. With my new knowledge I think she probably seduced me. However it was not all that it seemed. She had a boyfriend in a long distance relationship. He is a D.I. in San Diego for the Marines. She and I are here in the midwest. We strike it up and I indicate interest very strongly. She's a little reserved and over time I understand the source of her reservations to be; she doesn't trust easily as she has been hurt badly, she's not sure about her relationship with the Marine, but won't cheat on him, wants to take it slow, be friends first, etc.
Of course, all this makes perfect sense to the unenlightened me and I buy it hook line and sinker. Over the course of a few months we do make a certain emotional connection and she an I speak to each other daily. She tells me over Christmas that she's going out to San Diego over New Years for graduation of one of his classes; that he's been
alluding to the idea that he wants to ask her to marry him. She tells me that she won't do it. I'm skeptical, but will wait and see. She actually calls me from San Diego to tell check on me and tell me that she's turned him down.
During her absence, I find a blog for the dearly departed in the name of her father who passed last year. In it, I find a post from her mother oestensibly to her deceased father telling him that my love interest is intending to marry the Marine. Wow! Without revealing how I know this I confront her with it when she returns.
She to this minute denies that she is getting married.
Now here's where your help comes in. First, I've been so intrigued by this new information for the last month that I'm actually in
various stages of attraction with 5 other women. All of this began prior to me learning of the impending nuptials as I had recognized that I was in a position of weakness with this woman.
Now, I'm listening to you and reading the Q&A that comes with the Platinum
program. In it you address the all to common question of how to I get her back. The answer being you don't with the remote exception possibility of if one is willing to loose a friend to gain a lover.
Well I don't want to gain a lover as there is no future with a liar. But I would like to get some of my dignity back. So, without malicious intent, I broke it off with her after I confronted her. And relying on the principle that women want what they can't have waited for the phone call. It came a week later. She inquired as to whether I had sent her flowers anonymously for her birthday. It was a bogus pretext for the call on many levels. But I had my affirmation. Funny thing all my juices were flowing then and they were driving me to try to hook up with her again. But I resisted and went to a strip club to practice my game. I had a great time with two girls at the same time. I number closed one of them.
I did many of my own little 'cocky funny' things, goofy stuff, and threw in some stupid little mind teaser tricks to add value. In the past I would not have done that last thing. I would have simply looked for her to be a good conversationalist. Lazy, I know. But the best was how easy some of the stuff from the game was to pull off. I did the infantile ESP pick a number from 1 to 10 thing. One of the two girls literally went reeling across the room during a lap dance when I guessed her number so fast she had barely had time to think of it. I did it to the other girl too an she was shocked. I know I am such a neophyte at the game, but the little bits that I know are all so much fun. Simply because they are showing me a side of women that I never knew existed.
I'm such a left brain analytical thinker, none of this was even conceivable to me. Everything had to fit a linear pattern or it didn't exist for me. Well after 3 marriage in the dust bin of history for me, I'm finally learning a little about women. Thank you and all the others in the community for helping to level the playing field. I am certain that I will be a loyal and dedicated student. I'm having too much fun.
G
PS... I haven't thought about the lying girl or felt any emotion for her since about 21:00 last night. Amazing how powerful this stuff is at reestablishing self-confidence.
----------
CARLOS:
Amen to that, brother!
It's truly an eye-opening experience to find out how the social marketplace REALLY works out there. And it's incredibly empowering to learn that these strategies can give you a sense of power again over your own life.
Guys want and need choices and options. When we feel like we have no choice, we get frustrated and lose our cool.
Dating and Attraction is all about that. What I teach is all about that.
Giving men back their sense of power and confidence with women.
And giving them OPTIONS.
Here's a great place to get some options for yourself:
ALPHA MAN
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