SOLO BARFLIES:

Hi Carlos.

I really enjoy your audio/ebooks/podcasts. I found out why my relationship fell apart and have been practicing your alpha seduction methods.

I have a question for you: along the lines of the bar scene how do you think women feel about men who go to these bars by themselves. Most of my friends are in relationships and hardly get out anymore.

I try approaching at other places other than the bar scene but I still enjoy it. I just feel women's defense mechanisms would be on high alert being approached by someone who is by themselves. Keep up the good work.

- B
--------

CARLOS:

Remember, the only difference that's really going on is that you're projecting your fears on the women.

You THINK they think this, but they really don't care. As long as YOU don't care.

Get it?

If you go in with the belief that they think you're creepy for being the solo dude and that they'll raise defenses to this, well ... they will.

If you go in with the belief that you've got something awesome to present them with (YOU), and that they'll totally dig you ... they will.

It's all in the state of mind.

As for how you present yourself, how about this: "You know I was going to meet up with some friends tonight, but I thought I'd stop by here and make some new acquaintances. What's your name?"

Simple.

Effective.

All you have to do is deliver it with conviction and belief.

And I've got more methods to approach solo in my APPROACH WOMEN NOW program...

Get it here...

alpha man | how to talk to women | approach women | dating advice for men