MORE SCARCITY

Hey how’s it going Carlos,

I just want to say that I think you are doing a great thing for the advancement
of men. It's all about self improvement. As I'm sure you already know
knowledge is power. And the more experiences you have and learn from helps
make you become more familiar and knowledgeable with the information you
use...regardless of what it is. Repetition is the key to successful learning.

Anyways though, the reason why I wrote you was b/c no matter how many women you
pick up, every person deep down somewhere can always foreshadow on their "one
true love." Either the one they never made a connection with, or the one that
never quite worked out. It's all about timing. We all play different roles in
different times and situations throughout our lives. Think about it.

All I'm saying is that yea picking up all these women is wonderful, but is it
truly MEANINGFUL? I guess it all depends on ones perspective. Just remember
your perception becomes your reality. In my opinion, planning, communication,
and negotiation are the key ingredients to a successful relationship. I mean
what's the point of getting involved in a relationship that is going nowhere?

I hate to say it but people’s values and morals now a days have gone down the
drain. We have too much freedom now a days. There is no order or discipline.
Today there are more divorces and single mothers than ever before. And the
scary thing is that it's going to get worse! I just wish people would use
their brain, and truly think about what they are doing and saying before they
act. They sure would be making smarter decisions, instead of being so
arrogant.

We all live and we all die...but it's what we do with our TIME on this Earth
that's important. Time management is the key ingredient to enjoying Life. I
say do the things you enjoy and never hold anything back. Regret is a wasted
motion. Just remember "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."

If you have any thoughts or comments I’d appreciate it. Keep up the good work
Carlos.

------------
CARLOS:


Thanks for the props...

I'd like to make a correction, though:

Knowledge is NOT power.

Knowledge is POTENTIAL power.

ACTION is real power.

And the two together totally ROCK.

I don't see any questions in your letter, per se, but you do re-state what I've been saying for some time now. Men need to do this work from the inside out.

That's what the Alpha Man program is all about.

But I feel that I have a more optimistic opinion about our future. I think there will be another backlash of guys who are going to see what's happening and re-claim their balls.

I think women will grumble a little, but they'll celebrate it when the quality of their relationships goes up a hundred fold. And they don't need to divorce their wuss husbands because he finally had the operation he needed: and Add-a-pair-to-me.

I don't think that people realize that we are still living in the BEST TIMES ever for human kind.

The only reason we think anything different is because the MEDIA tells us we should be scared of terrorists and big bird flu, and freak catastrophes.

I was watching the "news" online, and one of the sites actually thought the horrible death of 7 people in a fiery automobile crash was news. It's a tragedy, terrible.

But why did they think this was more important than the other things happening in the world? Why aren't they covering the people working in other countries to help the poor or starving?

Oh, that's right, it's not exciting enough. Not dark enough.

We're living in the most affluent, progressive, technologically advanced, knowledge sharing time of our entire species.

This is the best of times, not the worst. It's not Utopia, but we have it better than you think.

A LOT better. Be thankful you're not dodging bullets in Bagdad. Or scraping a meal of termites out of a rotting log.

Thankfulness, by the way is gratitude, which is not scarcity. It's appreciation for abundance.

Oh, and I don't buy that "one true love" horseshit. That's a fairy tale myth, not reality. We all have MANY true loves out there.

But when men only have about 4 or 5 long term relationships before they SETTLE for the first woman who will sleep with him and come back, most don't get a fair shake at finding one of them.

There are MANY women out there that will be a true love for you. All the more reason to be sure to sample more from the buffet than the salad bar.

Don't fall into scarcity thinking. It's the sure path to the Dark Side.

I'm more thankful every day I wake up with all my teeth, my ability to walk, and there's still a lot of lead in my pencil.

Don't fall into the trap of scarcity thinking. Time management IS a very important skill, and one that I cover in the Secrets of the Alpha Man, as well as the Advanced Audio Coaching.

alpha man | how to talk to women | approach women | dating advice for men