WEEPY "ROMANTIC" CRAP:

Hi Carlos,

this is just an aside related around music videos and the message that is blasted out to men and women everywhere.

This song, which I hear every morning when my clock radio goes off disturbs me on so many levels. It is apparently #1 on the local radio station, and I for the life of me, can not figure out why!

Artist: James Blunt
Song: 'You're Beautiful'
Album: Back to Bedlam
http://us.video.aol.com/video.full.adp?pmmsid=1368632

Now that i have seen the video, i don't know what to say! This song is neither sad or romantic, it is disturbing.

Well, just had to voice my 2 cents to someone that would have an appreciation for the various messages that are blasted at us.

I think something that would be interesting would be a list of movie scenes and music videos that show classic, male alpha behaviour... Those cheesy and not so cheesy, that show poise and good body positioning.

Something that you could through out there, onto your blog, possibly use to market your various up coming dvd's.

formally shy but now a cute ass chaser.

:)

Take care,

C
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CARLOS:

Yeah, this video was disturbing to me, too, and I think I know exactly why:

1) It implies that this guy is committing suicide or some great self-less act because he'll never get this woman he's singing about. His actions during the video scream "I'M A NEEDY LOSER!" so loud that I can't hear what he was singing.

2) Okay, I did hear a little of what he was crying about in his video. The lyrics imply that A) He is yet another stooge that can only fall in love with unavailable women, thus relieving him of the responsibility of going out and getting what he wants. And B) That women are to be adored as priceless fragile items of beauty.

(In fact, he didn't even lip-sync his own words all that well. The emphasis was all wrong. And he really needs to wash his hair.)

(Wait, I'm not done being critical. He needs to go to the gym and work out, and then get in touch with his inner MAN. He wrote this song to all the women he never managed to get laid by. He just quietly lurked around corners hoping for her to come over to him, or he just plotted ways to kill her boyfriends.)

I say, Love women. Don't worship them.

If you watch this video, remember that this is a classic example of a wuss in action.

I don't want to catch any of you Alpha Men out there putting this song on a compilation CD for some chick you're trying to nab. I'll find you!

As for Alpha Examples, I'm currently in the process of putting that together. If you guys search, you'll find my Alpha Heavy Metal compilation that you can get from iTunes.

My first suggestion: Watch every James Bond movie out there. Then all 3 of the Indiana Jones movies.

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