WIN HER BACK UNIVERSAL LETTER:

"Carlos, the dating black book was excellent and it is already helping me attract more woman.I sent you a email on the alpha mail website website and only realised when I sent it that you said send here.Im attracting woman but the problem is I still want my ex and I would like you to send me a gameplan.

I can get other woman and I have but its her I want. When I was seeing her in the summer she was texing me about 40 times daily, ringing me, emailing and I didnt care less and that made her worse but in the end she met somebody else.Anyway he was a control freak always ringing her and she dumped him. She later found out he cheated on her anyway as have all of her previous boyfriends.She still text me when she was with him but this time I responded telling her how I felt and then she whent cool on me.

I can guarantee if I dont call her or text for a week she will call me. Its when I respond and call and text her back that she goes cool on me.I didnt reply to her text xmas eve and she emailed me dec 29 asking why I didnt reply.I told her phone was switched off as I was aving no strings fun with a woman.

She then said she had a good think and she wanted to meet new year for a drink.I agreed, rang her and now im not hearing anything again.I feel like im going round in circles. I really want to get back with her so wat do you suggest I do. A few tips please.

Thank you. Yours sincerely. A.N., England (UK)

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CARLOS:


I am now resorting to the use of a generic form letter to respond to this situation.

Not because I'm trying to be insensitive, or generic about this. Mostly because the answer is almost always the same.

The question of how to get back an ex-girlfriend or win back some woman you messed it up with previously is a bad path to follow for the following reasons:

1)

You will never have the credibility you should with someone you've messed it up with. If, by some stroke of incredible technique you actually manage to get her back, she'll always be testing you, pushing your buttons, trying to see if you are for real. In the end, you'll wind up being a whipped pu ssy of a man, reduced to jumping through hoops, constantly trying to curry her favor. Don't do it.

2)

You'll spend 10% of the energy on simply finding a NEW woman that you start things off RIGHT with. Why drive yourself crazy, risk stalking her, and otherwise turn yourself into a toad of a man to win back something you never really had? Do it right the first time.

3)

By resorting to go back to a woman you once pursued, you're demonstrating a scarcity mindset. You are further reinforcing that you somehow cannot meet any of the other 2.8 Billion Women on this planet and must now recycle. Think bigger. (And this woman you're pursuing will sense your desperation and pull away even faster because of it.)

4)

You are probably in the heat of delusion, thinking that this woman is somehow the "one" for you, and there is no other woman like her. The reality is that there are MILLIONS of women like her. Your desperation and insecurity are simply blinding you to options. Go out and meet 20 new women (for real, not half-heartedly) and I'll guarantee you that you won't think the same anymore. She's like a snowflake: unique and special - JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE!

You'll further destroy what little self-dignity and confidence you have by continuing to travel down this spiral chute to hell.

MOVE ON!

Ironically, if you are to ever stand a chance of getting her back, this is the only way to do it. Only by demonstrating the ability to get on with your life will she ever find you attractive again.

As demonstrated by your behavior, when you stay away from her, she suddenly wants what she cannot have. This is her mental illness, not yours.

Go out and find a few new women to make your primaries and you'll discover that women like this are nothing more than a cute annoyance. The way they should be. Let her go infect some other guy with her hot/cold routine.

But I can help you find the confidence you've lost and get you on the path to a new and better relationship...

I created the Alpha Man program just for this situation. It will rebuild your self-esteem higher than it was before.

Better. Stronger. Faster...!

Go download the e-book right now...
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