What if she's too busy to talk to?

Carlos my man,

How you goin? Good no doubt. I firstly like to thank you for writting you for you Dating Black Book, its taught me a heap, Im now more confident, I
present myself better and make myself known and I have had great results.

But I have come across a problem, At my local Mcdonalds there is this rather attractive manager. 1 of my mates used to work there and so I asked him what he knew about her(just to give me something to work with before entering a conversation with her) unfortunatly he only remembers her name and her age and that she has 2 tongue rings (I know - hot, huh).

My predicament is that she is the manager and try as I might she is always out the back or racing about behind the scenes where I cant get to her. Now Ive been pondering this for sometime and was about to give up but I want to prove to myself that there is a way to get a girls number that seems just out of reach.

Carlos how do you think I should go about this and is there anything else that you know that could help me with similar situations.

Forever in your debt,
Steven in the UK
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

Glad to hear you're getting the results. I find it interesting that guys who apply the knowledge they get always seem to get the results. The "excusers" (the ones that can't seem to find the time or motivation to use my strategies) don't.

The math is simple, really.

But your problem is an interesting one, and one that a lot of guys share.

Let me tell you a story from my past and you'll start to get an understanding of how I view this:

I went to a local restaurant here in Oakland called "Milano's." (I think there's one in every city named this.) I was eating with a lady friend of mine, and our server was very friendly and also pretty adorable. I was just out of a relationship and looking for a new girl.

Now, I also didn't want to make the friend I was with feel weird (I can be VERY forward with women at times), and our waitress seemed very busy the whole night. Hardly time for me to get a word in edgewise.

Well, I went about my life that week, but she did manage to stick in my head, so I made a decision that I had to do something about it. You see, you can want all you like, but to get requires a little action.

I made a decision on the way home from the dojo one night to ACT on that desire. I drove over to the restaurant, asked if she was around. (I got her name from the receipt. The server is usually listed.)

She came over and I said, "Hey, I wanted to drop by and say hello. I don't know if you remember, but you were my server the other night."

She gave me a smile and said she remembered.

"Well, I just thought I'd drop by and tell you that I thought your smile was wonderful and I'd love to take you for some ice cream after your shift."

She then told me that she was already in a relationship, how long, etc. I said, "No problem. I just had to come over and try."

She said, "Yes, you did! Thanks."

Now rather than sit around and pine away for my fair damsel, I simply went out and acted on the desire. I could have waited a couple of weeks, fantasizing about her, crystallizing her in my head, but instead I decided that I should ACT on the need and push this to a decision point.

As a result, I didn't end up with a crushed heart, and despite not getting her, I felt even more confident after I TRIED.

The moral of the story?

DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO IN ORDER TO SPEAK WITH HER.

Go at a time when the McD's is slow. Ask for the manager. Go a few paces away from the counter and turn away so she can't draw you to the desk, she'll have to come around to you. Smile, take her hand, and introduce yourself.

Not hard at all.

And if you want to know what to do next to keep the conversation going and get her phone number, you should have a look at this:
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