Field Report - Successful approaching a woman
Hey Carlos, I wanted to hit you up with some great news. I was out eating at one of our local Tex Mex restaurants here in the ATL when out of the blue came walking in this perfect 9. I wasted no time in getting up to go talk to her almost like it was instinct now.
As I walked up to her I had no idea what I was going to say or do and to be quite honest I was also not thinking of what I was going to say to her but I just knew I had to say something. As I got with in talking distance she bent down to inspect something that was on her shoe. With out skipping a beat I bent down in the exact position that she was in and simply asked her what she was doing.
Now normally I would think this simple task would not work but for what ever reason, maybe she was in a really great mood, or maybe because she found it a little funny that a complete stranger would simply walk up to her in a situation that doesn’t make sense to talk to some one, but what ever it was I did it.
She looked at me and started to giggle in a very flirtatious and cute way. I simply asked her what she was doing and when she replied that she was simply addressing a tight that was pulling on her lower leg on the cusp of her boot. I fired back at her in a calm quiet almost whisper that to me it looked like she was about to pull a gun out of her boot and if she was about to perform a heist that I wanted in. She was laughing so loud that it really attracted the attention of all those who were in the vicinity.
After I made her laugh I told her that I just wanted to make sure she was not in the habit of robbing restaurants in the middle of lunch and that if she did do this that she would be better off waiting until all the tills are full after lunch. She told me that she thought I was really funny and that I was brave for saying that due to the wait staff and managers walking around and that it was truly the most original thing anyone has ever done to talk to her. I told her that she didn’t have to try and butter me up for making a joke and that I played hard to get and that I was a tough nut to crack.
As you always say, it’s not what you say but more the reaction in the physiology of the subject you are talking to. I noticed that a huge smile came over her face and that little goose bumps were on her arms. Now I’m not going to lie, I have really no idea what that was about but it was something and I was going to keep going in the same direction I was in.
She told me that we were going to have to hang out some time because she thought I was really funny and that I made her laugh. I told her that I had to go because at some point in time that afternoon someone was about to perform a heist and I didn’t want to miss out on my golden opportunity to fulfill my dreams and that I need her phone number in case I need a get-a-way driver or simply someone just to talk to in case I feel that I needed to vent about my future robbing spree I was about to commit.
She was tickled with laughter and agreed. She looked at me as if she knew she had met her match, no lie that is exactly what I got from my gut instincts. I got her number and her full name so I could Google her later on when I got home.
Carlos, My man, I have to thank you right now because three weeks into this and I am now in a great relationship with an Elite International model who is on national commercials and who does work for the home shopping clubs and is in just about every beauty magazine out there that women run to the store to buy.
Not only that, but she has been in films that are at all our local Blockbuster videos. I want to say her name but I cant because if it gets out to the people at Elite it could cause her trouble in the future ...
Now I know I did the leg work here but a special thank you goes out to you for putting all the pieces together for me.
J
in Atlanta
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Hey, I'll take a little of that credit, my man. This is an excellent account of the interaction and how a good approach is supposed to work - and it's surprisingly easy. The only thing missing that other guys have to watch for (and you can't really communicate in writing) is the overall "vibe" of the interaction. You set the tone with humor and playfulness in the right combination.
The reason this worked so well for you is that you were in the right STATE (frame of mind) when you walked up and started to chat her up. You were feeling the confidence that you get from knowing the Secrets of the Alpha Man, and you knew that you had to share it all with her.
THAT is the right state to come from, my Alpha Brother.
Most guys today are reading a lot about being a "Pickup Artist," and they're not understanding that the reason that all of these guys are successful with women is not WHAT they're saying, but the HOW they're saying it. You can't just parrot words or you'll crash and burn. You need to understand how to be a naturally confident and fun guy to be with.
Women can see through bravado, and the cheap pickup lines. If you want to learn how to bring out your natural attractiveness with women, then you need to learn the Secrets and the Strategies that will make you successful with women.
Get them HERE...
As I walked up to her I had no idea what I was going to say or do and to be quite honest I was also not thinking of what I was going to say to her but I just knew I had to say something. As I got with in talking distance she bent down to inspect something that was on her shoe. With out skipping a beat I bent down in the exact position that she was in and simply asked her what she was doing.
Now normally I would think this simple task would not work but for what ever reason, maybe she was in a really great mood, or maybe because she found it a little funny that a complete stranger would simply walk up to her in a situation that doesn’t make sense to talk to some one, but what ever it was I did it.
She looked at me and started to giggle in a very flirtatious and cute way. I simply asked her what she was doing and when she replied that she was simply addressing a tight that was pulling on her lower leg on the cusp of her boot. I fired back at her in a calm quiet almost whisper that to me it looked like she was about to pull a gun out of her boot and if she was about to perform a heist that I wanted in. She was laughing so loud that it really attracted the attention of all those who were in the vicinity.
After I made her laugh I told her that I just wanted to make sure she was not in the habit of robbing restaurants in the middle of lunch and that if she did do this that she would be better off waiting until all the tills are full after lunch. She told me that she thought I was really funny and that I was brave for saying that due to the wait staff and managers walking around and that it was truly the most original thing anyone has ever done to talk to her. I told her that she didn’t have to try and butter me up for making a joke and that I played hard to get and that I was a tough nut to crack.
As you always say, it’s not what you say but more the reaction in the physiology of the subject you are talking to. I noticed that a huge smile came over her face and that little goose bumps were on her arms. Now I’m not going to lie, I have really no idea what that was about but it was something and I was going to keep going in the same direction I was in.
She told me that we were going to have to hang out some time because she thought I was really funny and that I made her laugh. I told her that I had to go because at some point in time that afternoon someone was about to perform a heist and I didn’t want to miss out on my golden opportunity to fulfill my dreams and that I need her phone number in case I need a get-a-way driver or simply someone just to talk to in case I feel that I needed to vent about my future robbing spree I was about to commit.
She was tickled with laughter and agreed. She looked at me as if she knew she had met her match, no lie that is exactly what I got from my gut instincts. I got her number and her full name so I could Google her later on when I got home.
Carlos, My man, I have to thank you right now because three weeks into this and I am now in a great relationship with an Elite International model who is on national commercials and who does work for the home shopping clubs and is in just about every beauty magazine out there that women run to the store to buy.
Not only that, but she has been in films that are at all our local Blockbuster videos. I want to say her name but I cant because if it gets out to the people at Elite it could cause her trouble in the future ...
Now I know I did the leg work here but a special thank you goes out to you for putting all the pieces together for me.
J
in Atlanta
______________________
CARLOS ANSWERS:
Hey, I'll take a little of that credit, my man. This is an excellent account of the interaction and how a good approach is supposed to work - and it's surprisingly easy. The only thing missing that other guys have to watch for (and you can't really communicate in writing) is the overall "vibe" of the interaction. You set the tone with humor and playfulness in the right combination.
The reason this worked so well for you is that you were in the right STATE (frame of mind) when you walked up and started to chat her up. You were feeling the confidence that you get from knowing the Secrets of the Alpha Man, and you knew that you had to share it all with her.
THAT is the right state to come from, my Alpha Brother.
Most guys today are reading a lot about being a "Pickup Artist," and they're not understanding that the reason that all of these guys are successful with women is not WHAT they're saying, but the HOW they're saying it. You can't just parrot words or you'll crash and burn. You need to understand how to be a naturally confident and fun guy to be with.
Women can see through bravado, and the cheap pickup lines. If you want to learn how to bring out your natural attractiveness with women, then you need to learn the Secrets and the Strategies that will make you successful with women.
Get them HERE...
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