Approach Anxiety

The whole topic of Approach Anxiety is really founded on a faulty core belief: I'm afraid of strangers.

We're brought up to believe this from childhood, because our parents incorrectly programmed us for our "safety."

FACT: Most child abductions are by someone in the child's family.

How's that for disinformation?

FACT: You're being lied to every day by the media.

Ever look at the pictures that CNN.com puts next to the latest bombing massacre in the Middle East?

I have noticed that almost without exception, when they don't have pictures they can use from the location, they publish a picture of an angry mob.

WHY?

Ask yourself this when you see these kinds of associations being pushed on you by the Media.

Back to the fear of approaching...

You're afraid of approaching because it's been pushed into your brain since you were just a kid. (Not because of evolution, or trapped energy in your chakras, either.) You are afraid because of the value we put on other peoples' opinions.

Let me say that again:

You are afraid of other people's opinions of you.

This is the core and unmistakable source of all your inner turmoil regarding approach. Once you have fully explored your own emotions and beliefs regarding the power of other people's opinions, you will no longer find this intimidating.

Nor will you fear approaching women.

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