Friday, April 27, 2007

Hi Carlos, Im from Brazil and admire your newsletters and programs reviews, you're my favorite dating guru (no shit) because you don't [delude] people with superficial/commercial stuff - unfortunatelly that may be the reason why some people aren't able to see how superior you are to C&F or [another advisor]'s programs. You hit direct to the foundations point, which is the main thing to be handling your life - as a man.

My social life is so fucked up, that I even 've got depressed in the last years... is very frustrating being lonely (talking about friends) and so far away from my goals. I'm pretty brave when it comes to approaching girls, my main problems are in general relationships with people. And conversation is probably the most important aspect of it.

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CARLOS ANSWERS:

Thanks for the kind words...

And yes, I agree that the one area guys struggle the most is in conversation with women. (And, oddly enough, a little trouble talking with men, too.)

I've noticed that most guys who are having trouble with women don't really have trouble with women. Yeah, that's a symptom and all, but for the most part, their problem is in social dynamics and interactions.

Remember that guys are brought up to be independent, competitive, isolated - alone.

Women are brought up to be cooperative, collaborative, connected.

If it weren't for women, I think most guys would stay at home with the X-box and a pizza.

In reference to your problem, no matter how low you think you are, you can always come back up. After all, what's the alternative?

You can only get better from here.

The key is to never ever give up.

EVER!

Now, the first program I've created to help guys along this path of better social skills is out and available.

It's my Alpha Conversation & Persuasion program. Go have a look HERE.

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