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I wanted express to you my continued awe at the type resources that you provide.
I started using Carlos's stuff about 3-4 months ago and I have been improving drastically. Women friends say I act differently now-a-days. My favorite approach is the "Why are guys so afraid to talk to girls." I used it on one girl at school that nobody could get, or was intimidated by her then followed up with my conversational skills. I'm taking the time to tell you this because as you know in this game, feedback plays a pivotal role.
So I'd like to say THANK YOU
Recently I been approaching women and I have no problem getting the number/email but when I e-mail them or call them they tell me they have a boyfriend or seeing someone. Is this a test? They say "Yeah I wanted to tell you from the beginning." How should I respond to this? Should I call them on it or move on?
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CARLOS XUMA:
Thanks for taking that time to write in. You're right - feedback is so much more critical than most guys ever discover. The reason is that feedback from others is the only way we get the input we need to make changes to areas we can't always identify on our own.
Another reason is that the big difference between guys who grow and succeed and those that just talk and hide behind their egos is that the Alpha Man isn't so insecure that he's afraid of confronting an unflattering image of himself to see if he needs to make a course correction.
What you're experiencing is not really a test. This is their way of not confronting you or making you feel bad or rejecting you when you asked for the number. They didn't want to give it in the first place. But now that you're on the phone with them, it's MUCH easier to tell you the truth.
(This is an unfortunate aspect of our social nature. Live with it.)
No, there's nothing for you to "call them on."
The reality is that you're not creating enough rapport and trust when you first meet them.
This is why getting phone numbers is really a joke as far as goals go. I don't care how many phone numbers you get; you need to get CONNECTIONS with women.
BIG DIFFERENCE!
Use the strategies and tactics from my programs and you'll have no problem getting them interested in you enough to where they want to meet up again.
I started using Carlos's stuff about 3-4 months ago and I have been improving drastically. Women friends say I act differently now-a-days. My favorite approach is the "Why are guys so afraid to talk to girls." I used it on one girl at school that nobody could get, or was intimidated by her then followed up with my conversational skills. I'm taking the time to tell you this because as you know in this game, feedback plays a pivotal role.
So I'd like to say THANK YOU
Recently I been approaching women and I have no problem getting the number/email but when I e-mail them or call them they tell me they have a boyfriend or seeing someone. Is this a test? They say "Yeah I wanted to tell you from the beginning." How should I respond to this? Should I call them on it or move on?
______________________
CARLOS XUMA:
Thanks for taking that time to write in. You're right - feedback is so much more critical than most guys ever discover. The reason is that feedback from others is the only way we get the input we need to make changes to areas we can't always identify on our own.
Another reason is that the big difference between guys who grow and succeed and those that just talk and hide behind their egos is that the Alpha Man isn't so insecure that he's afraid of confronting an unflattering image of himself to see if he needs to make a course correction.
What you're experiencing is not really a test. This is their way of not confronting you or making you feel bad or rejecting you when you asked for the number. They didn't want to give it in the first place. But now that you're on the phone with them, it's MUCH easier to tell you the truth.
(This is an unfortunate aspect of our social nature. Live with it.)
No, there's nothing for you to "call them on."
The reality is that you're not creating enough rapport and trust when you first meet them.
This is why getting phone numbers is really a joke as far as goals go. I don't care how many phone numbers you get; you need to get CONNECTIONS with women.
BIG DIFFERENCE!
Use the strategies and tactics from my programs and you'll have no problem getting them interested in you enough to where they want to meet up again.
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posted by Carlos Xuma at 12:58 PM 
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