Do you believe that women don't want short men?
Considering the fact that I have not at all been unsuccesful with women , I got really excited when I somehow ended up on your website and listened to the intro.
....But my lack of success comes from the fact that I am a very short man about 4'2" and this puts a lot of women off. Actually some women have admitted to me that if I was a little bit taller they would consider going out with me.
Do you think your book will somehow help me out on here? I undesrstand now that women usually prefer men taller than them. But then I cant go on without finding a woman that somehow will like me ... Is there anything I can do to make a woman not to cosider my lack of height and Find me attractive? Do you cover such agendas in your book?
Awaiting your urgent response.
- S (in the UK)
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CARLOS:
Let me say this:
1) Will my e-book help you? Yes. Definitely. The principles help a man regardless of his height. These are principles that EVERY man must be very aware of for long-term (even short-term) success. You have to have a strong inner game right along with your outer game.
In fact, the mistake comes when you listen to a woman who says something like: "If you were a little bit more X, I'd consider going out with you..." That's woman speak for: "You're not being Alpha enough for me, and I'm not feeling the attraction."
Of course, she doesn't know how to verbalize this, so she says what comes to her head as a convenient excuse.
I know for a fact of a guy who is a little person, stuck in a wheelchair, who can attract women.
2) Do I address how to overcome this particular situation?
Yes, the Alpha Man program covers "perceived limitations" in detail.
You see, there are a set of beliefs that you will wind up working with, no matter what. Your physical situation (which I do not consider a disadvantage, just a challenge depending on your dating goals) is one that has its roots in many common beliefs among men. One is that women judge men the way that men judge women - based on appearance. Not true.
There are specific strategies to be employed. You never need to be short in spirit or mind, S. (Consider this: Stephen Hawking has been married and remarried, and the man has been totally incapacitated for decades. There is a woman for EVERY guy on the planet.)
3) Remember that you cannot make a woman ignore the obvious. The key to managing your situation is showing her the self-confident man that she will be attracted to.
You see, there is the conscious part of her mind that can try to fight with her subconscious mind, the same way many men and women struggle with a relationship they know isn't going anywhere, but they feel that crazy attraction that actually rules their actions. That subconscious attraction mechanism is the part that every man has to engage in a woman or she will NEVER truly be yours.
One thing you can do is to make your height a source of humor. Don't put yourself down, but make it clear to her in your posture and lighthearted way that your height is NOT a source of insecurity for YOU. Once she knows you and that it's not a problem for you, she'll be much more interested.
Remember: Women pick up on insecurity faster than the 49'ers can lose the season. (Hey, I'm in San Francisco. I can make those jokes.)
Use your vulnerability to demonstrate your Alpha Power to women. Knowing how to talk about your weaknesses is something that will drive women crazy for you, and create a connection that she will NOT want to lose.
I've literally been able to create such strong attraction and rapport with a woman that she has been heartbroken to have me leave at the end of the night.
I recommend the following:
1) Keep reading the newsletters, and also get the Dating Black Book. This will help get your attitude stay on the right track.
/dating-advice.htm
2) Complete my Secrets of the Alpha Man home study course. I can promise you that it will help you in skills as well as understanding.
https://www.alphaconfidence.com
Thanks for the email, S...
(and "mind the gap"! :) (Just a tube joke for my other British Alpha Men out there...)
....But my lack of success comes from the fact that I am a very short man about 4'2" and this puts a lot of women off. Actually some women have admitted to me that if I was a little bit taller they would consider going out with me.
Do you think your book will somehow help me out on here? I undesrstand now that women usually prefer men taller than them. But then I cant go on without finding a woman that somehow will like me ... Is there anything I can do to make a woman not to cosider my lack of height and Find me attractive? Do you cover such agendas in your book?
Awaiting your urgent response.
- S (in the UK)
-----------
CARLOS:
Let me say this:
1) Will my e-book help you? Yes. Definitely. The principles help a man regardless of his height. These are principles that EVERY man must be very aware of for long-term (even short-term) success. You have to have a strong inner game right along with your outer game.
In fact, the mistake comes when you listen to a woman who says something like: "If you were a little bit more X, I'd consider going out with you..." That's woman speak for: "You're not being Alpha enough for me, and I'm not feeling the attraction."
Of course, she doesn't know how to verbalize this, so she says what comes to her head as a convenient excuse.
I know for a fact of a guy who is a little person, stuck in a wheelchair, who can attract women.
2) Do I address how to overcome this particular situation?
Yes, the Alpha Man program covers "perceived limitations" in detail.
You see, there are a set of beliefs that you will wind up working with, no matter what. Your physical situation (which I do not consider a disadvantage, just a challenge depending on your dating goals) is one that has its roots in many common beliefs among men. One is that women judge men the way that men judge women - based on appearance. Not true.
There are specific strategies to be employed. You never need to be short in spirit or mind, S. (Consider this: Stephen Hawking has been married and remarried, and the man has been totally incapacitated for decades. There is a woman for EVERY guy on the planet.)
3) Remember that you cannot make a woman ignore the obvious. The key to managing your situation is showing her the self-confident man that she will be attracted to.
You see, there is the conscious part of her mind that can try to fight with her subconscious mind, the same way many men and women struggle with a relationship they know isn't going anywhere, but they feel that crazy attraction that actually rules their actions. That subconscious attraction mechanism is the part that every man has to engage in a woman or she will NEVER truly be yours.
One thing you can do is to make your height a source of humor. Don't put yourself down, but make it clear to her in your posture and lighthearted way that your height is NOT a source of insecurity for YOU. Once she knows you and that it's not a problem for you, she'll be much more interested.
Remember: Women pick up on insecurity faster than the 49'ers can lose the season. (Hey, I'm in San Francisco. I can make those jokes.)
Use your vulnerability to demonstrate your Alpha Power to women. Knowing how to talk about your weaknesses is something that will drive women crazy for you, and create a connection that she will NOT want to lose.
I've literally been able to create such strong attraction and rapport with a woman that she has been heartbroken to have me leave at the end of the night.
I recommend the following:
1) Keep reading the newsletters, and also get the Dating Black Book. This will help get your attitude stay on the right track.
/dating-advice.htm
2) Complete my Secrets of the Alpha Man home study course. I can promise you that it will help you in skills as well as understanding.
https://www.alphaconfidence.com
Thanks for the email, S...
(and "mind the gap"! :) (Just a tube joke for my other British Alpha Men out there...)
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