Nice guys SUCK
Someone posted this rant about nice guys up on the best of Craigslist. I thought you should read it because it is really what a lot of women are thinking, and sitting around disgusted about. They just don't always have the guts to vent it like this woman did.
Read on:
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Why nice guys SUCK
Date: 2006-09-10, 9:19PM EDT
This is a long rant, so bear with me or hit your back button. I'm frustrated and in no mood for your sh*t either, so if you don't want to read it, well...
So I'm dating a nice guy now and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS. He's no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He's got it all though - a decent job, a nice house, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he's tall and cute. Anyone ever seen that Friends episode when Alec Baldwin played Phoebe's boyfriend?? YEAH, my boyfriend is THAT nice. He's just too f*cking nice. Nice is boring. I've never heard him raise his voice. He's never aggressive. He has no edge. He won't even drive over the speed limit and that f*cking annoys the sh*t out of me, yet I sit in the passenger seat and keep my mouth shut... watching everyone whiz by us.
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So for the nice guys out there, my advice is this: It's great that you're nice (to an extent), but have some backbone. Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something. Don't let her walk all over you. Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal). Say "No" to her sometimes. Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Drink a few too many beers and piss out in public. Smack her ass. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile. Run an old lady off the road just for kicks (yeah, I'm kidding about this one... just ride her bumper for a few miles). Be aggressive during sex. Take off those damn white socks and Jesus sandals. Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up.
BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE... and the women will fall at your feet.
Whew... THAT FELT NICE.
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CARLOS:
Well thank you!
It's always refreshing to hear a woman say what most women are merely thinking. And this should reinforce to you guys out there that women who are normal (yes, there are a lot of them out there) think this same way. Women want men that act like MEN, not wussies.
My prediction? This guy will last about a couple months longer, tops.
He'll last only as long as it takes her to find a guy that DOES turn her on.
What kind of guy is that?
An Alpha Man.
Read on:
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Why nice guys SUCK
Date: 2006-09-10, 9:19PM EDT
This is a long rant, so bear with me or hit your back button. I'm frustrated and in no mood for your sh*t either, so if you don't want to read it, well...
So I'm dating a nice guy now and it SUCKS. No other way to explain it, it just SUCKS. He's no challenge. He agrees with everything I say. He's got it all though - a decent job, a nice house, no kids, no psycho ex-wives, and he's tall and cute. Anyone ever seen that Friends episode when Alec Baldwin played Phoebe's boyfriend?? YEAH, my boyfriend is THAT nice. He's just too f*cking nice. Nice is boring. I've never heard him raise his voice. He's never aggressive. He has no edge. He won't even drive over the speed limit and that f*cking annoys the sh*t out of me, yet I sit in the passenger seat and keep my mouth shut... watching everyone whiz by us.
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So for the nice guys out there, my advice is this: It's great that you're nice (to an extent), but have some backbone. Don't be a spine donor all your life. When your girl is out of line, say something. Don't let her walk all over you. Occasionally, be a "bad" boy (being bad doesn't translate to abusive or criminal). Say "No" to her sometimes. Raise your voice and be heard. Say something dirty/sexy to her occasionally. Drink a few too many beers and piss out in public. Smack her ass. Don't ever use the word NICE to describe things, especially sex (okay, that may be a personal pet peeve). Have an interest in at LEAST one sport (or pretend to). Drive 5-10 miles over the speed limit once in awhile. Run an old lady off the road just for kicks (yeah, I'm kidding about this one... just ride her bumper for a few miles). Be aggressive during sex. Take off those damn white socks and Jesus sandals. Grow a goatee for a few weeks. Shave your balls. Stray from your routine and shake things up.
BE A MAN FOR GOD'S SAKE... and the women will fall at your feet.
Whew... THAT FELT NICE.
______________________
CARLOS:
Well thank you!
It's always refreshing to hear a woman say what most women are merely thinking. And this should reinforce to you guys out there that women who are normal (yes, there are a lot of them out there) think this same way. Women want men that act like MEN, not wussies.
My prediction? This guy will last about a couple months longer, tops.
He'll last only as long as it takes her to find a guy that DOES turn her on.
What kind of guy is that?
An Alpha Man.
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