Most men are doing everything BACKWARDS when it comes to attracting women...

I bought your alpha man program a little over a year ago and have been getting fantastic results...
I have one question though... if you can help me.

I have been talking to a girl at work. Should I ALWAYS answer her phone calls?

I want to show interest and such. and I know ppl fall for ppl when they are not around them. thus, I want to create and environment of scarcity... cause I don't want to be "too available".. know what I mean?

Like I say, we have talked to each other and seen each other for a few days in a row and then she calls the next day. should I answer? I feel I need to know when to be available and not. but, if she is interested and calling... should I always answer?
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CARLOS:

This is a common question that is asked by guys early on, when they first realize that they can control attraction with women.

When you realize just how deep some of these psychological principles run, you start to become very alert to their presence.

The first you realize is how much your availability affects a person. If you're available all the time, they don't feel your value. If you're never available, they'll forget about you.

Where do you draw the line?

Well, my first suggestion comes from my R.E.A.L. Game (TM) method. If you want to attract a woman on a genuinely powerful level, you must be as close to YOU as possible. You never need to use fake lines or hypnosis to attract women. You only need to use certain principles with your REAL personality.

Cool, huh?

Let's face it: no man wants to be a fake guy just to attract women (or get laid.) Even if you use clever manipulation up front, you sabotage your self-esteem and self-image over the long run.

One way or another, you'll be back again working with me on your confidence.

But what do you do when you're trying to learn what this confidence feels like?

That's what you use strategy for. Understanding that being around too much for a woman will kill her attraction is just a start. You have to know the RIGHT way to demonstrate UN-availability.

What I always tell you guys is this:

Don't act hard to get.


BE hard to get.

Have the lifestyle of a man who is in demand.

Get out and get an active social life. And then you don't have to "fake" it. You don't have to duck out calls TRYING to make yourself look popular (and just reinforcing the sense that you're not.)

Get it?

In answer to your question about should you ALWAYS answer her calls... I say, NO. Answer if you WANT to.

But don't not-answer just to manipulate things.

One comes from a place of personal power. The other comes from need and insecurity - and a desire to get validation.

But you have to trust that doing this will reinforce your confidence over the long run.

When you have enough women and action in your life, you won't feel like you want to answer every call that comes your way. And that's a good thing. You're doing it because you've got a sense of abundance in your life.

When you understand the Secrets of the Alpha Man, this becomes more and more clear...

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