How to ask a woman out... and how NOT to.

There's this girl I work with and things are starting to progress a little which is obviously great. She doesn't work in the same section as I do but yet comes to visit me on a regular basis and finds excuses that are the most obviously poor reasons to come visit and talk to me.

I finally just asked her out well sort of, I was talking about this new scary movie that's in theatres and she was talking about how much she hates scary movies and I told her we should go and if she didn't like it that "she wouldn't have to pay my way". She then responded with well we're not seeing a scary movie we'll see something else. First question is did I make it clear enough that this is a date and is that a yes if so I still don't know :)

Lastly do you think dating a female co-worker is a wise idea?

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CARLOS:

Well, I'm going to have to point you to a previous blog post regarding (it's called "Dating a Girl at Work...").

There's nothing wrong with it, as long as you are reasonably sure there won't be any cRaZy stuff later on. (And there's never any guarantee on that, my friend.)

But let me give you one tip right away:

DO NOT TAKE A WOMAN TO A MOVIE ON A "DATE."

And even more important, never take a woman to a horror movie. You might think you're going to drive her into your arms as her protector, but you're really just going to raise all kinds of anxiety and fear in her, and that's not very helpful to make her feel rapport and connection.

Ya dig?

What you need to do is realize that she might be interested in you, but she's still in a state of keeping a safe distance. Your priority is not in "asking her out" but in making it clear that you are a sexually dominant and assertive Alpha Man. (Not sure how to do this? Look HERE.)

Once she gets the right "vibe" from you, the intent won't be an issue anymore. She'll know what's up. Just don't try to sneak in by pretending you're just "hanging out."

Make your first out-of-work experience with her something interesting and dynamic. Your priority is to give her an ENERGIZED and FUN experience.

Movies don't allow you much opportunity to do that.

It's great that you're getting a lot from the newsletters, but remember that they are only a starting point. You need the BIG picture, and that starts with learning these strategies in DEPTH.

The best thing you can do is to take a look at my Approach Women program, because I cover all the ins and outs of approach in this comprehensive home study course.

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