Big Teddy Bears - How to make women like you when you're a big dude

In Seduction Method you say that larger men can be successful with women using a "teddy bear" image.

Would you please tell us more about how we should dress and act in order to produce this "jovial relaxed" image that will not overpower women by our larger size? I am 5'10" 175 pounds.
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CARLOS:

Yes, I spoke about this in the e-book because it was often a concern for guys that they may appear a bit too "rough" and "burly."

Just remember, a woman's first concern is whether or not you are safe. That's her biggest worry.

Now, 5'10", 175 lbs. is not huge, by any means. Hell, man, I'm 5'10"+ and about 160 when I'm at my best weight. So an extra 15 on top of that isn't too big.

But it all depends on how you carry it.

Are you fit? Or are you flabby?

If you're not carrying the weight well, women aren't your problem. Your health will be. (Remember, guys, I don't just preach this stuff to get you laid; I want you stronger and happier and more successful MEN first.)

Go to a gym AT LEAST 2-3 times a week, and get fit. Any weight is tolerable if it is FIT.

Now, you have to realize that your size will either make a woman feel safe with you or threatened with you.

She wants to feel protected.

Jovial doesn't necessarily apply here, but I'm not suggesting a Santa Claus outfit, either. Just get clothes that fit well and aren't TOO trendy. It's not the fashion that will make or break you. It's HOW you carry yourself inside the clothes.

Relax. Joke a lot with her. Act like her protective big brother.

In fact, you can joke with her about this:

"You're just like a kid sister. I'd have to stick up for you when other kids are picking on you. Probably have all your friends with a crush on me. It would be fun. But you can't dress me up and make me play dolls with you."

And for gosh sakes, if you're muscular, don't flaunt it like you're some kind of Arnold/Terminator tough guy. Understate your muscles and even hide them.

Women can tell.

Oh yes. They can tell.

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