Preach to the Masses

Yo Carlos!!

WHAD-UP MAN!!!.....

Just a little something that happened to me on mothers day..

I was at the mall with one of my homeboys shopping for my mothers day gift. As you already know the mall carries some decent female flesh. Now every time my homeboy saw a nice figured woman, not loudly, he would have some comment on them. Such as, "God Bless America!" or, "What you gonna do with all that!" I got so annoyed, that I told him to approach a particular female, or the next one that he came across. Of course he declined. I asked him why over and over just to see, and test his replies.

Some of his first answers were just him shrugging his shoulders. A worded answer he gave me, was that because of other guys he hangs out with, they all do the same thing. So he sort of took that from them, (not surprising.) One was that he doesn't know if he's interested initially when he first sees that person. Even if she's nicely shaped (looks), from this point is where I explained to him lightly your concepts, that you won't know for sure until you approach. And then from there, spend time to know the person( i.e. dates dinners etc.) Other than that your just assuming what that person is about.

Another reply he gave me was that he's waiting for the right opportunity and/or the right woman. I told him, that right woman will not just pop up and then things click. You as a man have to be out-going, and initiate what ever it is with a woman that you desire. Eventually he became a bit aggravated over some of the concepts I was reveling, (sort of going against his thinking.) It was kind of funny. To keep his cool, I put a big smile on my face, and I told him he was a good guy, and my friend (Blew his aggravation out the window, and managed to get him to laugh.) But through his aggravation you could see on his face that he knew what I was talking about.

The reason I told you about what happened a few weeks ago, is that I'm basically introducing him to your work and programs that you've created. Something that the men you teach practice, nothing new too your knowledge of course. I'll direct him to you, but on the road there to there I have some questions.

As I said I introduced him lightly to your concepts, should I

1. Go a little more in depth? Or

2. Just send him to your site. (https://www.datingdynamics.com) and get him listed on your E-mail list?

Thanks again...

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CARLOS:

It's true.

Most guys don't have the first CLUE about what REALLY works with women.

The problem with giving your friends advice is that they already think they know it all. I spoke about this recently in a newsletter and blog.

There's EGO and SHAME that they're fighting against. These are two potent forces when they're mixed in a guy. And they can totally destroy a man's success with women.

I'd bet that if you went up to a hundred men, 99 would say that they are doing well with women. Or "good enough." Whatever that is.

What you say in your letter is DEAD ON. Guys are too busy waiting for something to happen rather than MAKING it happen., and that's a guy's RESPONSIBILITY. We are MEN.

What? Don't like it?

TOUGH.

Men DO. We don't sit home whining about how HARD it is out there.

WALK like a man. TALK like a man.

BE a man.

So, in answer to your question about this friend, I'd just point him my way. Often guys will try to save face more than they will risk improving or admitting that they could use some work in this area. By sending him to my materials, I'll take the action from here.

By the way, your handling of his insecurity and his lack of skills was a classic way to handle AMOGs out there. Just make it gentle and don't bitch-slap him with your success and he'll be more willing to look at it.

Ah, so much work to do.

By the way, if you are wondering what materials and programs I have available for you, you'll want to take a look at the catalog page at DatingDynamics.com.

You can find it HERE.

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